complications Posted June 30, 2009 Posted June 30, 2009 I'm looking for advice on anyone who may have experienced this situation or anyone with good advice! I'm in a relationship with a divorced father. We get on very well, get on well with the kids. He is very busy and I don't get a huge amount of dedicated time. There are other complaints but small things that are normal. My concern is, is that although he claims to love me he is unsure that he wants children. I do not have any children as yet, and stated very early on in the relationship that I would want them in the future. I do understand that he must find the thoughts of going back to nappies a bit of a nightmare - but his kids are not that old as yet. 12,10, 8. We have been in a relationship for two years now, I have moved country to be with him and we live together. I am very understanding of his situation and a huge support to him. He supports me too, but to a much lesser extent. My thoughts are that if he loves me, surely it's natural to want to have children with that person. How long should I give him to make this decision? I'm 30 now and to be honest I don't want to be in a relationship where I help look after his kids but have none of my own. He realises how unfair the situation is and it causes him stress too.
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