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ok so about 8 days ago, my ex broke up with me, saying he needed to sort his head out and he thought he wasnt a good bf and he didnt treat me right and i would be better off without him etc etc, even though i never thought any of these things.

 

Anyway so for about 4-5 days he cried, begged, went insane the usual. it just pushed him further away.

 

He kept saying i still care about you and love you so much and your the perfect girl blah blah but im not sure if i want it right now.

 

Anyway so i started reading online and here about how to get my ex back and started implementing ideas.

 

Getting strong, doing my own thing, cutting off contact, being the person he fell inlove with i did all these things

 

we live together in university dorms and we study together (medicine), we also have summer coming up a 4 week break in about 4 weeks time, which might be a possible issue!

 

So things seem to be working sort of! even though we have to see eachother im not giving him much attention and he is kind of running after me a bit, not in a lets get back together way in a please give me attention way!

 

But yesterday, he seemed to be playing the game back, i was in the lib working on something and i looked tired and was sitting alone, he was laughing and joking with a friend and he asked me to go out and eat with them and i said no but it made me feel bad and miss him and depressed! The day before that he was the one acting all depressed and needy!

 

what should i do!??

 

edit: we broke up on our 19 month anniversiry

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Glad to hear that you've been proactive, did your research and became a stronger person. :) I went looking for answers too and made similar changes myself... Best advice I got on how to turn these situations around was in an ebook. Yep. Not pushing the book but it practically takes you by the hand,, in steps, and walks you through to getting him back. Got mine back. :) Magic of making up...Hope you feel better!

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I would just go no contact and move on. Let him feel he has lost you and see if he seriously misses you. Find someone else who will treat you better

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