Idimmu Posted June 30, 2009 Posted June 30, 2009 I started dating a girl over a month ago, she had very recently broke up with a boyfriend she had been with for 6 years, since high school. We hung out with each other every couple/few days for the first 3 weeks, she would call/text message me almost every day or I would her. But the last 2 weeks I have spoken to her only twice, and both times she seemed slightly aloof. Not sure what is going on, but I've decided to just play it cool, give her space and wait for her to call me. This is killing me, my organs feel like they're trying to reorganize themselves in my chest, and I can barely sleep. Should I just forget about the whole thing or what?
AlektraClementine Posted June 30, 2009 Posted June 30, 2009 Yes. For a while anyway. It sounds like your feelings are MUCH stronger than hers and the way you feel now will only get worse the more you invest in this girl. Take a step back and see what else is out there.
Author Idimmu Posted July 2, 2009 Author Posted July 2, 2009 Thanks for the advise. She broke up with me last night by text message, saying it wasn't a good time for her, and she needed some time to be on her own.. I'm really confused, I was getting all the signs that she really liked me. I was even the second person she ever slept with, thought that was a clear enough sign in itself. Oh well, it was only a month, so it probably won't take too long for me to feel alright again.
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