Andy L Posted July 12, 2009 Posted July 12, 2009 I want to try and salvage my marriage. Why start over with someone else that you will never fully trust any way. Man, sorry to disagree with you, but I think you're making a wrong decision... See: You'll not try to work a marriage with someone who LOVES you... The probs are: 1) She cheated on (and is still cheating on you)! 2) She does not love you! What else do you wait for her? More cheating? Many spouses cheat and can have their marriages worked since they still love each other.. I don't see something like that in your case (i just see you loving her, but not her loving you back..). That's why i don't believe your choice for trying some more.. Friend, doesn't lie to yourself, its not enough you to love her, you can waste your life/time, maybe she'll keep on living her wrong way.. Try to consider another option without her. All the best
Andy L Posted July 12, 2009 Posted July 12, 2009 Your wife has lost all respect for you. She cannot love you if she doesn't respect you. This is a fact. I am amazed how many spouses are afraid of losing their cheaters more then they are afraid of losing their self respect. OK i think the same. Its not easy to be STRONG when he loves the cheater. There's a lot of damage with people in these cases, they are cheated on by their spouses AND sometimes they begin losing their own respect, because its very hard to be STRONG to make decisions that hurt also as a divorce...
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