sbs Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 I know this girl for 3 years, we only see each other occasionally and is normally in family reunions. She never talked to me before, I think she never looked to my face before lol Ignoring that, I added her to my facebook. I when out to a party with a group of girls, she was on the group (and she said "Hi" lol) . I was chilling on the couch, enjoying my drink. Everything was good and I was just trying to discover my target to that night. But, she came and talked to me ( in my mind "wow, this is unexpected" ) Everything was fine by the end of the night. We lived the place. We didn't spoke again for few weeks. Two weeks a go, she asked me for help with something on her computer (again, "wow, this is unexpected") and after that I start talking with her a little more on the fbchat. Last week I ask her to hang out with me, she said yes, she gave me her phone number, we when to this bar for 2 hours talking, she send me some of the signals(laugh, playing with her hair, leaning to me, ask and respond all night) Here is the interesting part, in the end of the night, she left, really fast, not hug, no kiss ( no time to do my game and score lol ) What is going on with this girl, if she into me or not? if she too shy? (she admit that she is really shy) She just want to be friends, because the family issue? She want a take this slowly or what? I never had a problem with a girl before and I'm chock lol The way she act the end of the night was really unexpected. Any suggestion is really appreciated. Thank you in advance. keep spreading love
Mary3 Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 If you were acting tooo smooooth then she ran from your game. She does sound interested ( at least recently as opposed to 3 years ago ) Do you wanna impress her ? Be yourself ! No game talk , no smoooooth lines , we see right through that. She could be shy. Next time , get close to her , touch your hand softly to her back , gently pull her slightly towards you and softly plant one soft kiss on her lips. Step back. Just look her in the eyes. If she likes you her face will get red and her eyes will sparkle. If you repulse her ( which I doubt you would ) then she will look mortified. Well very shy girls might look ruffled by a kiss too but just back off and see if she wants one more kiss. Then say goodnight. No playing or sex stuff . This is IF you like her alot okay ?
dreamergrl Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 I know this girl for 3 years, we only see each other occasionally and is normally in family reunions. She never talked to me before, I think she never looked to my face before lol She just want to be friends, because the family issue? Ummmm please tell me you're not related.
Mary3 Posted June 30, 2009 Posted June 30, 2009 Ummmm please tell me you're not related. oh noooooo I missed that part
dreamergrl Posted June 30, 2009 Posted June 30, 2009 :eek: oh noooooo I missed that part Okay... I'm taking bets.... Any takers for 2nd cousins?
Author sbs Posted June 30, 2009 Author Posted June 30, 2009 Mary3, thank you. Great advise and yes, I like her. dreamergrl, ewww no. but that was funny lol. I'm pretty sure, that is more common than we think. Anyway, my sister is friend of her family for many years. I moved to the city just 3 years a go and for some reason (I don't really know) they invite my Family all the time. Up to now, I just enjoyed the free food lol I have some more info: 1. Her family likes the idea. 2. Her father told me, I need tattoos and pircings lolol I think that means she likes bad boys.
dreamergrl Posted June 30, 2009 Posted June 30, 2009 Mary3, thank you. Great advise and yes, I like her. dreamergrl, ewww no. but that was funny lol. I'm pretty sure, that is more common than we think. Anyway, my sister is friend of her family for many years. I moved to the city just 3 years a go and for some reason (I don't really know) they invite my Family all the time. Up to now, I just enjoyed the free food lol I have some more info: 1. Her family likes the idea. 2. Her father told me, I need tattoos and pircings lolol I think that means she likes bad boys. Phew... I was worried for a bit! This makes me feel better. If she's really shy, you might to have push a bit more. It might take a bit. I'd ask her out again and see how it goes.
Author sbs Posted June 30, 2009 Author Posted June 30, 2009 please girls, please don't panic. first ewww again lol your perverts and you all lost the bets. Don't you guys have family friends?
dreamergrl Posted June 30, 2009 Posted June 30, 2009 please girls, please don't panic. first ewww again lol your perverts and you all lost the bets. Don't you guys have family friends? Yeah, but you said "family issues" ... that set off all sorts of alarms.
Author sbs Posted June 30, 2009 Author Posted June 30, 2009 you are right, wrong comment there. the Family issues are actually my issues: If I screw up. Her brothers will kill me, my family will kill me and my sister will kill me. lol (interesting, I'll die 3 times and I'm not a cat)
dreamergrl Posted June 30, 2009 Posted June 30, 2009 you are right, wrong comment there. the Family issues are actually my issues: If I screw up. Her brothers will kill me, my family will kill me and my sister will kill me. lol (interesting, I'll die 3 times and I'm not a cat) :lmao: Thanks for clarifying! I'd say just take it slow if you're worrying about screwing it up. Ask her out again, do something fun. Find out what she loves to do most, because chances are the shyness will ease up a bit. Doing something she's more confident about. If that makes sense.
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