Bill Fonda Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 those dating sites took my girl!!! Ive been dating my girlfriend for 2 years. Everything seemed great until one day I got home and noticed that when I was ready to search a site on the web a key word popped up. Then when I went through the list I noticed that someone was visiting dating sites on our computer. Now no one other than her and I uses the PC. So I really got light headed when I seen this. Writing this makes me want to puke,sorry. I was like no way she doesn't have the u know what to do this. Why would she... So I browsed threw them and noticed that she was browsing through the free ones like 71flavors and Plenty of flish. I was wow she thinks I'm dumb. Join the free ones so I will never find out on our credit card statements. So anyway to make this short I put a camera near my PC and started to record everything that was going on because I really wanted to know and guess what, when I went through the tapes I found out it was really her. I'm so disgusted because I thought I was the perfect man. What should I do?
LucreziaBorgia Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 those dating sites took my girl!!! What should I do? I would start with the fact that the dating sites didn't take your girl, and second to address directly why she seems to be wanting to take herself away from you, and third - find out why you aren't the perfect man for her. If you are lucky she will tell you. If not, she will BS her way into an explanation that if you are not strong enough - you will eat up with a spoon.
Art_Critic Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 What should I do? Why not just ask her about it ?.. tell her that you found out about it by accident while typing in the search window and then see what she says to explain it.. If what she says matches what you saw on video then what to do is all up to you.. if it doesn't then Pull down a frame off the video and print it out and give it her. You have to at least hear her out on this.. unless she was doing more than browsing.. if she was trying to connect with people then you just break up with her...
asireen Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 The novelty with you has worn off with time. With the internet, opportunities have opened up multi-fold. She is looking for the next 'perfect' mate for herself. The more you try to hold on to her, the more she will want to get back her independence.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 wow she thinks I'm dumb. at which point do you begin to state your case to the contrary?
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