EmptyPromises Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 ive gone 4 days NC, if you've been reading my posts i stopped talking to the guy that said he wanted to "work things out" because he didnt want me to hangout iwth him the night of his 21st birthday...weve been broken up for almost 2 months and last week he said he wanted to work things out with me, yet acted the complete opposite, not calling me, not wanting me to hanogut with him, and then noww i go on facebook and hes tagged in pictures with girls i cannot stand ( girls he KNOWS i cannot stand, girls we have gotten into fights over before for hanging around) ... he hasnt tried contacting me besides a "is everythign okay" on friday, no apology for his birthday, nothing...he texted me this morning saying i missed a good night laSt night.. i ignored it til now and saw those pictures got really upset ..called & texted him calling him disrespectful and rude... i todl him im done with him..yet again.. unfriended him on facebook .. im just really upset right now because he has nothing to say besides nothing happened... ive been asked out by guys but keep saying no because i just wanna be with this guy. now im thinking about going out on a date with a guy just to start to move on.. how can someone say they love me and want to work things out and then act liek they dont? do things and say things to hurt me? hes lying. he doesnt love me i can tell but why would he say it? why is he fing with my head im really upset right now and hate this. i thought i was doing okay
Author EmptyPromises Posted June 29, 2009 Author Posted June 29, 2009 ps i dated this guy for over a year, school ended we broke up because i caught him sending flirty texts to girls.. we live really close to eachother at home but he just seems to not give a s*it since weve been back
Beeotch Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 ive gone 4 days NC, if you've been reading my posts i stopped talking to the guy that said he wanted to "work things out" because he didnt want me to hangout iwth him the night of his 21st birthday...weve been broken up for almost 2 months and last week he said he wanted to work things out with me, yet acted the complete opposite, not calling me, not wanting me to hanogut with him, and then noww i go on facebook and hes tagged in pictures with girls i cannot stand ( girls he KNOWS i cannot stand, girls we have gotten into fights over before for hanging around) ... he hasnt tried contacting me besides a "is everythign okay" on friday, no apology for his birthday, nothing...he texted me this morning saying i missed a good night laSt night.. i ignored it til now and saw those pictures got really upset ..called & texted him calling him disrespectful and rude... i todl him im done with him..yet again.. unfriended him on facebook .. im just really upset right now because he has nothing to say besides nothing happened... ive been asked out by guys but keep saying no because i just wanna be with this guy. now im thinking about going out on a date with a guy just to start to move on.. how can someone say they love me and want to work things out and then act liek they dont? do things and say things to hurt me? hes lying. he doesnt love me i can tell but why would he say it? why is he fing with my head im really upset right now and hate this. i thought i was doing okay Keep it moving girl! The more bullshyt I go through...the LESSS tolerance I have for excuses, BS, half-hearted attempts. If you are not going to come correct and with purpose and give your all...DONT BOTHER ME! I am worth it and will do the same for you...so I expect the same. Drop him I say!
Author EmptyPromises Posted June 29, 2009 Author Posted June 29, 2009 argh! im trying! i should have just let the pictures set in and just not contacted him. hes trash and i dont deserve this. how can i be in love with a guy that treats me badly? weve been broken up for two months and hes strung me along for almost all of it. i decided i had enough the other day but i let my emotions get the best of me tonight and contacted him. now im back to square 1.
Beeotch Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 Don't beat yourself up too much...just realize your mistakes, learn from them and move forward.
boogieboy Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 He's saying whatever he can to keep you on standby. Do you want to stay on standby? Is he the best you can do?
Author EmptyPromises Posted June 29, 2009 Author Posted June 29, 2009 i know he is and i realized that finally on his birthday. it was a slap in the face for him to say "no i dont want you to be here tonight". im just really upset because i broke no contact after 4 days..i went a little crazy with the texts and got no responses. he literally makes me so angryyy. 4 days is really good for me im so stupid to break no contact over pictures.
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