sugarmomma Posted July 3, 2009 Posted July 3, 2009 Sure does feel good and yes it is hard to let someone like that go. But the way I see it, the relationship we were forging wasn't doing him any justice because of the issues he has to tackle. Love you signature by the way ! I earned that signature the hard way and it has proven to be true for me. I have learned to be more selfish when it somes to my peace of mind and emotional health. Some men will try to deliberately drive you crazy. That flippin dopamine and those mind blowin orgasms will get to a girl if she lets em.
Author Kamille Posted July 3, 2009 Author Posted July 3, 2009 I earned that signature the hard way and it has proven to be true for me. I have learned to be more selfish when it somes to my peace of mind and emotional health. Some men will try to deliberately drive you crazy. That flippin dopamine and those mind blowin orgasms will get to a girl if she lets em. ooohh noooo! shhhh! don't remind me of the mind blowing orgasms. About men deliberately driving girls crazy. I can't help trying to figure that last guy out: was he being selfish or was he trying to balanced too many things at the same time and make too many people happy? with this guy, I think it was a combination of both: what we shared together helped him shake some of the failed relationship demons. It proved 1)someone still thought he was hot 2) that he was loveable 3) that he could be counted on, etc. He recognized fairly easily that the situation wasn't fair to me and that he needed to stop relying on me as a crutch. We're still in limited contact and things are actually going well for us as friends. There's still feelings there on both sides, but I feel way better with things this way.
tkgirl Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 Kamille, you went into this 100% and pulled out when it didn't feel right. I think that is great -- it shows a lot of emotional growth, I think. I feel like all of us could take a cue from your handling of this situation. hear hear! you rock Kamille... I know you will soon find someone as awesome as you are and very soon... and Europe! how exciting!
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