lovebound Posted June 28, 2009 Posted June 28, 2009 I really liked this guy and he had shown some interest before? I am thinking about asking him out, do you think that it will ruin everything? Do guys do not like to be asked out? I read a lot about men liking the thrill of the chase. Should i just dont do it?
RunawayTrain Posted June 28, 2009 Posted June 28, 2009 Do what you feel is right. Me personally, I think its a huge turn on when a woman asks me out, not to mention a huge ego boost It's good to mix it up every once in a while.
The Blue Pill Posted June 28, 2009 Posted June 28, 2009 I'd be nothing except excited if a woman asked me out. As said in the above post, great ego boost, and if you liked the girl back, great! I'm not huge on 'the chase' like a lot of guys may be though.
dreamergrl Posted June 28, 2009 Posted June 28, 2009 I've asked a guy out before. I didn't think it would be that great of an idea, but he said yes. He turned out to be a complete loser, but I was damn proud of myself for working up the nerve to ask him out. I'm a very shy girl.
colosseum Posted June 30, 2009 Posted June 30, 2009 Do it. If not for yourself, if not also for the guy, for mankind. It'll make this world a better place. IMO
SoulSearch_CO Posted June 30, 2009 Posted June 30, 2009 I've asked a guy out before. I didn't think it would be that great of an idea, but he said yes. He turned out to be a complete loser, but I was damn proud of myself for working up the nerve to ask him out. I'm a very shy girl. And all us girls may have learned a little something about a guy that waits around for a girl to ask him out rather than taking action.
runner Posted June 30, 2009 Posted June 30, 2009 i would only be turned off if i never thought of asking her out in the first place. but wait. once upon a time i really really liked a girl and the chemistry between us was palpable. being a bit shy--not too mention having a bunch of other commitments going on as well--i kinda let things drift longer than was necessary. one day she just came out and asked me if i wanted to catch a film or something (essentially a date), and we ended up just letting things happen between us for a few months. she would come up with ideas and i would take her out on dates as well. things eventually didn't work out between us but i wouldn't say that it was because she asked me out first, or because she didn't wait for me to finally get a fecking clue; it would've ended the same way had i asked her out first. if it's obvious that you both like each other and he just appears to be a bit on the shy side (like myself), then go for it
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