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Is my semi exbf just playing headgames ? Trying to make me jealous ?


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m very confused

My semi exbf has talked about missing me, getting together and also calls me 1-2 a week

we went on a 'break' 9 weeks ago after 5 months dating.

his fault for being late and canceling dates.

well the last few times we talked i really thought he is missing me

he wondered if something broken can ever be fixed and even called me 'Love' last night.

Well he called me at 10:30 pm at night so I thought since it was Saturday night he must still be single...

 

Well today I saw his facebook status update.

He never mentioned to me what he did yesterday...all he talked about was his busy week and that he was exhausted from a long saturday.

 

"am still enjoying yesterday in my head--- rafting --- a polo match --- quaint little Bu---town villages... capped off with colossal king crab legs... yum"

 

sure he does have a 10 year old child from his first marriage he sees a lot, but it sounds like the stuff he did was adult oriented yesterday

 

uM doesnt that totally sound like he had some romantic fun day with someone ? people usually dont go rafting alone, to dinner or explore villages by themselves.

 

also he has been calling me less the last two weeks but says it just because he is horribly busy

 

according to He's just not that in you Busy is always code word for @sshole.

 

Is he just calling me while out having fun with someone new ?

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He could either...

A) Have a life outside of you, be enjoying friends company, doing things without you, just enjoying life...

 

or...

 

B)Moving on. Perhaps before he still had feelings, but those feelings are tapering off. It's been nine weeks. Maybe he just doesn't feel as strongly about missing you and what not.

 

Who did the dumping?

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What is a semi-exbf?

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