moodoo Posted June 28, 2009 Posted June 28, 2009 Ok First and foremost I have to say I've had some pretty awful girlfriends in my past and it has kinda turned me off from "girlfriends" so I've spent the last few years just kinda messing around with girls but nothing serious. I'm 23 now and there's this girl I just met like 3 months ago.....at Church of all places, it was easter and I only go to church then and Christmas haha. So this girl is just it, she's a total knockout and a total good girl everytime she invites me out it's to like a coffee shop whereas old gf's of mine would want to go out party nad get drunk haha. So last night this girl knew I was out with my friends and she surprised me at 2:30 in the morning with a text to see if I got home OK bc she was worried we were out drinking, I called her and we ended up talking for 2 hours on the phone and it was so refreshing she was just fun you know I cant explain it. My question is 2 fold 1. I'll be blunt I've always dated trashy girl bc they were easy, how do I go about things with this girl, she's in Med school this is like wife material girl. 2. I have to be honest sex is important to me, not the most important but still I've been actively having sex since I was 17 or so and I imagine this girl never has, do you think if we dated sex would be plausible in say 8 months to a year or am I probably just outta luck?? All tiips would be appreciated, I'm assuming she likes me because you don't talk on the phone for 2 hours with just anyone and she invited me to go see a movie with her and her sister tonight. It's just my guess I dunno maybe she does just like me as a friend, who knows, all I know is my moaning about church actually paid off!
hoping2heal Posted June 28, 2009 Posted June 28, 2009 Sex may be important to you, and there's nothing wrong with that. But in my opinion, if this girl grows important to you, you'll learn to please yourself until she's ready to have sex. However long or short of period that is.
loveslife Posted June 28, 2009 Posted June 28, 2009 What to do? Spend some time with her and see what happens. Maybe clean up your act a bit. Because if you've been dating "trashy girls" because they're "easy" that says something about the way you view women.
Author moodoo Posted June 28, 2009 Author Posted June 28, 2009 It's just since this girl is such a nice church girl, did she call me last night to see if I was ok to be nice or does she really like me. Like right now, she just texted me 30 min ago out of nowhere to tell me she was swimming and got sunburned haha. She's just one of those sweet, nice people and I can't get a read on her if she likes me or not. I think she does because we just talked and joke around on the phone for 3 hrs last night until 5 am when i got home and that's not a thing you do with just anyone but who knows...
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