thehighwaystar Posted June 28, 2009 Posted June 28, 2009 Alrighty, I've been seeing a girl for two months now, and although there have been various ups and downs, I guess the last few weeks are what should be focused on. I don't know if she likes me that way or not, so here are some details. She's called me to hang out 4 times in the last two weeks, I've called her once, and we've ended up getting together every time. Although we used to hold hands, we haven't these 5 times, but we have still been pretty close(sitting almost on top of one another). Some things she's said that I would consider positive would be: "I've never dated a younger guy before but I'd say it's time to switch that up"(I'm one grade below her), "My parents like you, it's always awkward when the parents don't like the person you're dating...we need some tall genes in the family", "I've got a secret that I haven't even told my closest friends", and a couple of other things like that. Her body language is very open usually and she seems relaxed. Her entire family whenever I visit make comments referencing us dating etc... The bad signs would be that on msn, her anwsers are usually 3-4 words for half an hour, then a sudden burst of interest, and then nothing again...only a couple of her friends know who I am, and she recently cancelled plans on me to go hang out with her girl-friends who supposedly convinced her to do something for graduation because she had been so busy in the three days since grad that she hadn't had the chance to do a proper celebration with her friends. Granted, some of her friends are the type of people that would manipulate her with likely statements such as "If he cares about you he won't mind", and "well you've never done it before so it's not like he'll think something is up". But I wouldn't count on that, the point is she cancelled an hour and a half before we were supposed to meet up. She did offer an alternative date which we'll follow through on, but I've still never heard of any girl ditching the guy they like to hang out with friends. Opinions? She doesn't lead people on. The only other guy I know of said "do you want to go out to a movie or something" and her response was "you mean as friends". She's been acting under the knowledge that I like her from the beginning if that changes anything. I'll anwser any questions about it. Thanks.
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