one goal Posted June 28, 2009 Posted June 28, 2009 That girl I talked about. I got her number after class last week. I told her how I felt, and we exchaned numbers. She said she was busy this week, but said next week. Since I see her in class in a couple days Im not going to call her yet, talk to her at school. So what should I say next to her, or where should I take her?
Lyssa Posted June 28, 2009 Posted June 28, 2009 Ask how her weekend was and see where it goes from there. If you see there's an opportunity to ask her out - do it.
Author one goal Posted June 28, 2009 Author Posted June 28, 2009 Ask how her weekend was and see where it goes from there. If you see there's an opportunity to ask her out - do it. I basically already asked her out last thur.
Lyssa Posted June 28, 2009 Posted June 28, 2009 Was that when she said she was busy and next week would be better?
Author one goal Posted June 28, 2009 Author Posted June 28, 2009 Was that when she said she was busy and next week would be better? Yea it was.
Lyssa Posted June 28, 2009 Posted June 28, 2009 Well then like I said earlier - ask her how her weekend was and see where it goes from there. Does not mean that you asked her out last Thursday, you can't ask her out again. If the second time you ask and she comes up with an excuse then she probably isn't that interested.
Author one goal Posted June 28, 2009 Author Posted June 28, 2009 Well then like I said earlier - ask her how her weekend was and see where it goes from there. Does not mean that you asked her out last Thursday, you can't ask her out again. If the second time you ask and she comes up with an excuse then she probably isn't that interested. Yea. Well her cell number seems real cause I went on the internet on reverse lookup and its a local cell number.
Author one goal Posted June 29, 2009 Author Posted June 29, 2009 Like after class I usually go to mcdonalds or get a sandwhich somewhere. Is it ok if I ask her if she wants to go get something with me?
Lyssa Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 That should be okay - a casual out for sandwich. You can get to know her more from then on. Good luck!
mogul Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 Yea. Well her cell number seems real cause I went on the internet on reverse lookup and its a local cell number. Thats not obsessive... You should just call her right there on the spot to see if it rings or not and joke that now she can save your number and itll be easier for her to call you with a smirk/smile. A simple "how was your weekend in class" and build good rapport from there should do. Followed by you calling her around a tues or weds evening and asking her about something you "missed" or dont "understand" during lecture and then joke around and lead in to a "what are you doing and we should hang out".
torranceshipman Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 No don't do the ring on the spot thing! I don't know if this is just a bug bear of mine and other girls don't mind guys doing it, but...I hate it! It makes me feel pushed into a corner, as if the guy is checking up on me on the spot that I gave the right number.
Author one goal Posted June 30, 2009 Author Posted June 30, 2009 So when I see her tommorow I Should ask her how her weekend was? Also should you try to flirt with her in the gym class?
lino Posted June 30, 2009 Posted June 30, 2009 No don't do the ring on the spot thing! I don't know if this is just a bug bear of mine and other girls don't mind guys doing it, but...I hate it! It makes me feel pushed into a corner, as if the guy is checking up on me on the spot that I gave the right number. I agree, don't ring her there and then when you get the number. That's pretty sad in my opinion. Don't reverse look-up or whatever that is either, what's the point? When you eventually call her you'll find out if it's real or not. Since you see her often anyway I think it's safe to assume it isn't a false number. So when I see her tommorow I Should ask her how her weekend was? Also should you try to flirt with her in the gym class? Definitely ask how her weekend was. If she invites the flirting then sure, why not. I'd call her next week when she said she isn't busy. btw I think you did well to ge her number
Author one goal Posted June 30, 2009 Author Posted June 30, 2009 So when i see her in class tonight should I ask her if shes doing anything tommorow, or ask if shes free this weekend? Also Ill probably get something to eat after class should I also ask her if she wants to go with me?
Surfer Dude Posted June 30, 2009 Posted June 30, 2009 So when i see her in class tonight should I ask her if shes doing anything tommorow, or ask if shes free this weekend? Also Ill probably get something to eat after class should I also ask her if she wants to go with me? That seems fine, just make sure she pays for her own. Try not to supplicate. Get to know her, create rapport, give her emotional stimulation... and later give her excitement and passion. Show her you're not a nice guy, but rather a GREAT GUY. That's a bit abstract, but should get you laid if you follow it. Good luck
Author one goal Posted July 1, 2009 Author Posted July 1, 2009 I really didnt get to talk to her tonight. I said hi before class, but after class she was talking on her cell phone so I didnt get a chance to talk to her. Was she just blowing me off then? I mean if she was really interested wouldn't she have talked to me in class? Also last week when I asked her she said she was busy. So I wonder if the cell numbers real. I did reverse search and it is a cell number.
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