sugarmomma Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 Ruby, if I were her I would let my actions speak louder than my words. She owes him nothing and I would block his emails and turn the phone off as much as possible until she knows that he is gone. He is not responding because he knows that she is aware of his little tricks. He thinks he is so slick but you have us and we're so aware of these gamers!!! Go Quest! NC! He is a total loser.
Author Quest Posted June 29, 2009 Author Posted June 29, 2009 Thanks girls! I am torn between the two options - you both mirrored my thoughts. On the one hand I'm thinking of one final, end-it for good type email, minus any explanation. On the other I can't be bothered and just want no more hassle, just to leave it be and let him get the message that way. I'll see how it goes over the next couple of days I guess - and by that I mean, how I FEEL. Went to a friend's tonight and stayed out until after midnight. No email, phone message or evidence that he had called round - so he definitely seems to have got the message that I wouldn't be around tonight and didn't try to make contact. He's a smart guy intellectually, if not emotionally so Sugarmomma is probably right that he may well know I've sussed him out. Most of these other women he corresponds with seem to be weeping at his departure and he's actually said to me about one of them that he can 'do no wrong' in her eyes, and it's 'great being on a pedastal'. I'm really not that kind of woman - relationships should be equal and fun, not about worshipping someone. He knows me as a friend from the past, so at some level he must know I'm not the kind of woman to be completely duped by some guy. I've even discussed relationships with him in the past so he knows I can at least see through a few things where men are concerned. However, in the end I was duped, for a while, which really annoys me:mad:, or my pride at any rate. Just got to get through this next wee while. Think he may have moved off already so that may help. Just got to stay strong, as you say. Thanks again girls! At the moment I'm keeping low and sending nothing - it all has to be done by email because he has no mobile and doesn't answer his home phone ... alarm bells again, eh?!
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