Queen of Hearts Posted June 28, 2009 Posted June 28, 2009 Have you ever been so deeply in love with someone who entirely broke your heart into the tiniest pieces you could ever imagine, but moved on with your life when it was all said and done and healed as best you could? Then, years later, you are minding your own business, sleeping, and BAM!!!!!!! ...there they are in your dream, making you re-live things you thought were gone and out of your heart. Then you wake up, but do not realize you have had the dream until half way through the day when someone says/does something, or something happens that triggers the memory of the dream, and for the next 4-5 hours all you can do is feel like everything that happened so long ago, just happened. Your heart aches, you want to cry and you realize that even though years have gone by since you have seen this person, you are still in love with him. And, worse yet, you know without a shadow of a doubt you will never be together, becasue it was never meant to be. And, then you have to pretend to go about your day like you didn't just re-live the worst heart-break of your life without a choice in the decision to re-live it because the dream was so obnoxiously real and vivid you can still smell him. Makes for a ****ty day.
Exit Posted June 28, 2009 Posted June 28, 2009 Yep dreams can be painful. Why do you feel it would never work out with this person? Maybe you had the dream for a reason.
Author Queen of Hearts Posted June 28, 2009 Author Posted June 28, 2009 He is now married with children.
guitarplayer1234 Posted June 28, 2009 Posted June 28, 2009 Dreams definitely can be painful. Although I wasn't in love with this person yet, I still had deep feelings for him. We broke up about a month ago and ever since then I've had quite a few vivid dreams about him. I had this one dream a few days ago where he was telling me he wanted to get back together with me and wanted a fresh start, I was so excited in the dream and then I woke up. Haha I find it a bit funny now but I was very angry when I woke up because it felt so real. I wish there was some way to effectively control our dreams but sadly we can't.
WTRanger Posted June 28, 2009 Posted June 28, 2009 Actually you can somewhat control your dreams to a limited degree. Why do you think you are dreaming about these people? Probably because you are thinking about them a lot that particular day, week or even month. Somewhere along the time line you had deep thoughts about them, and your dreams are simply re-hashing out those thoughts. There's a girl in my case and for whatever reason last Friday I couldn't get her out of my head. No matter what, even doing thought interruptions I still couldn't banish the thoughts. And that night, you bet it, I had a dream about her. That's why in some of the dreams you hear them say or do things that you'd wish they would do. It just stinks that in our awake time these people are in our heads and they also invade our minds when we are asleep.
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