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Ladies: How open are you to second chances?


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This question is purely for satisfying my curiosity.

 

Say you liked this guy/had a crush on him, but he never really noticed you. You try to make it known to him that you like him, i.e. eye contact, what not, but the guy never pursued you. And say you two never became friends because you two did not really have a conversation or something like that. Also say the guy happened to be pursuing other women or had other things occupying him.

 

Over a course of a month or so, you get over him, so you don't have a crush on him anymore.

 

6th months later, say the guy started noticing you, would you still like him? Is there still a lingering feeling for him that is just dormant? Or would you not really be into him. Would you treat him differently than before?

Remember, you two have not talked and do not know each other - meaning you guys aren't friends. The only thing is that you two have seen each other around a lot.

 

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Personally for me, I'd give a second chance. Say there is this girl I liked but she wasn't into me, so I get over her. But later, she becomes interested in me. If I don't have a girlfriend or anything like that, I would probably ask her on a date.

 

Basically I want to see if ya'll ladies have lingering feelings like I do. I also want to see what my chances are for pursuing someone who I believe was previously interested in me but I never talked to because I was in a relationship with someone else.

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