Alan430 Posted June 27, 2009 Posted June 27, 2009 I have been talking to a woman for about a month, we have been pretty intimate without actually having sex. SHe told me this week that she had type 1 genital herpies. So now i completly understand why she would constantly put up road blocks. I appreciate her honestly to let me know and i could imagine how hard it would be to tell me. Now i understand bad **** happends to good people in life and thats part of the ride so i was willing to put the HSV out of my mind, but i wanted to be sure a relationship with this woman would be worth the risk. We have been getting along great, talking everyday for over a month and spending time together when we can. When we are together the chemistry is so strong so its hard to resist having sex but i force myself to stop. Me and this girl work together, and at a company picknic she told one of my friends from work that they should hang out sometime! Now i understand this is still a blossoming relationship and she owes me no committment as far as seeing other people, however this is someone we spoke about a few days prior and that me and him occasionally hang out side of work, so he is just not a associate but a friend. He does not know we were talking. So i get word for another mutal friend that she was flirting with him, but nothing specific. He apparently told our mutal friend. So i brought it up in conversation thinking it was a joke, i mean what retarted thing would that be, to be flirting with my friend. So then she told me that she asked him to hang out and this just totally turns me off. She claims that its because they live close by and that i said he was cool. Am i wrong for wanting to end **** right here and now? I mean, i would never met one of her friends and ask her to hang out with me! i think its super tacky. however she thinks its all in my mind, Is it? I think this kinda behavior stresses friendships and relationships.
Stark Posted June 28, 2009 Posted June 28, 2009 I suggest you cut contact while you still can, because this is incompatibility on how both of you see dating. You're not going to like her seeing other people while she sees you and she doesn't like to keep her options only to one person if she's not fully serious.
likeORIGAMI Posted June 28, 2009 Posted June 28, 2009 Its not in your head. This girl sounds like trouble. WARN your friend, too!
Author Alan430 Posted June 28, 2009 Author Posted June 28, 2009 I suggest you cut contact while you still can, because this is incompatibility on how both of you see dating. You're not going to like her seeing other people while she sees you and she doesn't like to keep her options only to one person if she's not fully serious. Hey Stark, I think the real issue is who not so much that it will occur. This is a friend of mine and i think that is what is really bothering me! But yes you do have a Very strong Point.
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