dreamergrl Posted June 27, 2009 Posted June 27, 2009 So last night I went out with a few boys for drinks. The group type of setting. We went to karaoke, which ended up being 80% Michael Jackson songs. I was having a blast. Everything was casual and fun. I even met a girl! Found out she lives down the street from me. We chatted and and stuff. I'm not sure what the heck happened, but I started crying. I don't know if it's been built up emotions or what. I feel like such an idiot. It was at the end of the night. I know I was feeling a bit sensitive. And I'm not saying I blacked out or can't remember, I just don't know what triggered the tears. Seriously, who the hell just cries for no reason? I still feel kind of emotional today. And hungover.
SoulSearch_CO Posted June 27, 2009 Posted June 27, 2009 PMS? I've started crying for no reason and realized that's what it was. But maybe it's just piled on stress and then getting drunk made it easier to release the tension. Sometimes a good cry just helps. Don't feel bad.
Lyssa Posted June 27, 2009 Posted June 27, 2009 Dreamergrl, you're not alone! Last week, I cried for no reason. I was getting ready to go to bed and all of sudden, I broke down and cried! I wasn't even thinking about my late mother or having a bad day... just... cried. If my fiance was around then, it would have freaked him out!
tkgirl Posted June 27, 2009 Posted June 27, 2009 aawwww! it happens.. sometimes it feels good just to cry and let it all out. In fact... I started crying just now while watching an episode of "Sex and the City"... um hello!
Author dreamergrl Posted June 27, 2009 Author Posted June 27, 2009 Thanks everyone! I still feel dumb. I'm not a crier when I drink. I'm normally a pretty happy go lucky girl when I drink. I'm not do for my period for another two weeks. So I don't know what to think. I can't kick this emotional feeling today either.
Ruby Slippers Posted June 27, 2009 Posted June 27, 2009 Maybe you miss Michael Jackson? I think it's normal. Certain times of the month, the most RIDICULOUS things can make me cry. Rationally, I KNOW it's stupid. But hormones can be powerful little buggers. All my female friends commiserate.
WineCountry Posted June 27, 2009 Posted June 27, 2009 So last night I went out with a few boys for drinks. The group type of setting. We went to karaoke, which ended up being 80% Michael Jackson songs. I was having a blast. Everything was casual and fun. I even met a girl! Found out she lives down the street from me. We chatted and and stuff. I'm not sure what the heck happened, but I started crying. I don't know if it's been built up emotions or what. I feel like such an idiot. It was at the end of the night. I know I was feeling a bit sensitive. And I'm not saying I blacked out or can't remember, I just don't know what triggered the tears. Seriously, who the hell just cries for no reason? I still feel kind of emotional today. And hungover. Maybe it was all the Michael Jackson songs.
Trialbyfire Posted June 27, 2009 Posted June 27, 2009 A lot of women cry, to relieve stress. Some of my g/fs are like that, even though they're normally strong individuals. I hardly cry at all. It takes a lot to make me cry. If you've made me cry, it means I've really let down my walls and you've hurt me badly. It also means that those walls will slam up and never fully come down again.
Touche Posted June 27, 2009 Posted June 27, 2009 Thanks everyone! I still feel dumb. I'm not a crier when I drink. I'm normally a pretty happy go lucky girl when I drink. I'm not do for my period for another two weeks. So I don't know what to think. I can't kick this emotional feeling today either. Did you drink a different drink? Were you drinking on an empty stomach?
Author dreamergrl Posted June 28, 2009 Author Posted June 28, 2009 Maybe you miss Michael Jackson? I think it's normal. Certain times of the month, the most RIDICULOUS things can make me cry. Rationally, I KNOW it's stupid. But hormones can be powerful little buggers. All my female friends commiserate. Maybe it was all the Michael Jackson songs. I was thinking of using it as a cover up though.... Saying I was in mourning. A lot of women cry, to relieve stress. Some of my g/fs are like that, even though they're normally strong individuals. I hardly cry at all. It takes a lot to make me cry. If you've made me cry, it means I've really let down my walls and you've hurt me badly. It also means that those walls will slam up and never fully come down again. I'm pretty emotionally driven, and can cry easily if the wrong thing happens to me. But I don't cry for no reason. I get bitchy sometimes. I've been bitchy kind of too. Did you drink a different drink? Were you drinking on an empty stomach? Actually yeah I did drink something different.
Author dreamergrl Posted June 28, 2009 Author Posted June 28, 2009 I'm not sure if I mentioned this... but I had left my purse in the truck of one of the guys I was hanging with that night. Well one called me back today.. First he said he'd make sure he got it to me, but I said I'd come pick it up (but it was a nice gesture to offer to bring it!). I asked him when a good time would be... he said today was fine. So I was kind of nervous because of the whole 'Dreamer broke down in tears at the bar" and I felt stupid. But I went and faced the music. No one said anything to me about it. Which was a huge relief! I thought for sure I'd be the target of some teasing.
Jilly Bean Posted June 28, 2009 Posted June 28, 2009 Maybe everyone else was too drunk to notice. Then again, a woman crying around men is like them finding a tampon or us talking about cramps. It just weirds them out, makes them uncomfortable, and they generally like to avoid the whole scene. You're fine, Dreamer. Nothing wrong with letting your emotions out, even if it wasn't the best or most expected venue. It happens. It's not like you threw up in your own hair or peed yourself.
Shygirl15 Posted June 28, 2009 Posted June 28, 2009 I think it's fine, really. Guys are so weird, they probably found it cute that you cried
Author dreamergrl Posted June 28, 2009 Author Posted June 28, 2009 Maybe everyone else was too drunk to notice. Then again, a woman crying around men is like them finding a tampon or us talking about cramps. It just weirds them out, makes them uncomfortable, and they generally like to avoid the whole scene. You're fine, Dreamer. Nothing wrong with letting your emotions out, even if it wasn't the best or most expected venue. It happens. It's not like you threw up in your own hair or peed yourself. Haha - nope, unless I blocked it out, I don't recall peeing myself or throwing up in my hair, or anyone else's:lmao::lmao: Well one of the guys told me about it the other day, the day after, but he didn't make a big deal out of. I think the rest were too drunk to remember. I think it's fine, really. Guys are so weird, they probably found it cute that you cried OMG I didn't find it cute!
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