Curt Posted July 4, 2009 Moderators Posted July 4, 2009 All I can offer Alpha, is to keep it really cool and don't lose your head with this chick. Who has contacted whom last? No chasing in any case. Curt
Author alphamale Posted July 4, 2009 Author Posted July 4, 2009 I guess you will know later on in the week if you get together or fade out... indeed. the thing is i'm in detroit til tuesday and she leaves for NJ on tuesday and comes back on Sunday so the earliest we can get together is the week after next. i'll give her a call when she's in NJ just to say hi. in the meantime i'll be doing my own thing and trying to meet other women also. i hope this thing with susan works but i have enough experience to know not to put all me eggs in one basket. and that latino girl is still texting me
Author alphamale Posted July 4, 2009 Author Posted July 4, 2009 Who has contacted whom last? she called me yesterday
WineCountry Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 Ooops ! Your profile says female. Sorry ! Dont worry about it. Its the first indecent proposal ive had all week!:laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh:
WineCountry Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 and that latino girl is still texting me Perhaps if the restaurant you had taken her to had meals that would total $250 for two people, she would have dressed better.
Author alphamale Posted July 5, 2009 Author Posted July 5, 2009 Perhaps if the restaurant you had taken her to had meals that would total $250 for two people, she would have dressed better. the latino girl meal set me back $125...it was at McCormick & Schmicks
Author alphamale Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 i haven't talked with susan since friday, she called me last. she's leaving for NJ on Tuesday until Sunday. Now, here are my options, what should i do? don't call her and wait for her to call me, whenever that may becall her say around Wed while she's in NJ just to say hicall her after Sunday when she gets back from NJdon't do anythinggo out and meet other girls and forget about SusanI'm sort of leaning towards option #1.
Author alphamale Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 i know this susan woman likes me but you guys have made me all paranoid and stuff
Land Shark Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Call her now, if you want to talk to her. She'd probably like to hear from you. If you're concerned about coming on too strong, just keep it short.
runner Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 i know this susan woman likes me but you guys have made me all paranoid and stuff i can definitely see that i'd go with a hybrid of option 1 and 5. don't just totally forget about this girl, but also don't make her the centre of your universe just yet.
Touche Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 You're listening to these guys? Good luck with that! You've gotten horrible advice IMO. But I won't bother giving mine since you won't listen anyway. Just curious...did you pull out her chair and open doors on your date?
Author alphamale Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 Call her now, if you want to talk to her. She'd probably like to hear from you. If you're concerned about coming on too strong, just keep it short. naah, i don't feel like talkin' to her right now i can definitely see that i'd go with a hybrid of option 1 and 5. don't just totally forget about this girl, but also don't make her the centre of your universe just yet. yea thats good advice... Just curious...did you pull out her chair and open doors on your date? i don't pull out chairs but i did open doors
Mary3 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Listen Alpha the kiss of death is to IGNORE her ! I know the Don Juan types want you to play it casual and cool and not call her but I am looking at it from her eyes. * If * she really , really , digs you the you should man up ! Otherwise imagine whats going on in her mind while in ______ ( forgot which city she's going to ) . Especially if this girl has her sheet together and looks good , good job she can have ANYONE ! Now stand out and be noticed ALpha. Don't let this one get away. Remember what I said :" Ignore her and your toast ".
kizik Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 I've just gotta say, this is a wonderfully interesting case of a person, whose username is actually "alphamale," acting concerned and delightfully nervous over one, single, girl. The classic LS irony in full effect.
Touche Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Listen Alpha the kiss of death is to IGNORE her ! I know the Don Juan types want you to play it casual and cool and not call her but I am looking at it from her eyes. * If * she really , really , digs you the you should man up ! Otherwise imagine whats going on in her mind while in ______ ( forgot which city she's going to ) . Especially if this girl has her sheet together and looks good , good job she can have ANYONE ! Now stand out and be noticed ALpha. Don't let this one get away. Remember what I said :" Ignore her and your toast ". Yep. What she said. But I doubt he'll listen.
Citizen Erased Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Listen Alpha the kiss of death is to IGNORE her ! I know the Don Juan types want you to play it casual and cool and not call her but I am looking at it from her eyes. * If * she really , really , digs you the you should man up ! Otherwise imagine whats going on in her mind while in ______ ( forgot which city she's going to ) . Especially if this girl has her sheet together and looks good , good job she can have ANYONE ! Now stand out and be noticed ALpha. Don't let this one get away. Remember what I said :" Ignore her and your toast ". I know personally it would only annoy me, not make me more interested in him. I've just gotta say, this is a wonderfully interesting case of a person, whose username is actually "alphamale," acting concerned and delightfully nervous over one, single, girl. The classic LS irony in full effect. I think it's cute.
Mary3 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 I know personally it would only annoy me, not make me more interested in him. I think it's cute. Okay for instance the $ 250 dinner. (Over kill.) He could have took her to Red Lobster and dropped $ 50 for 2 dinners and a drink a piece. I think the physical is moving too fast. They were all over eachother ~~ I think and he was intimating that they will be getting frisky in the near future. My experience with that is unless you get to * Know * the person , then all this is , is physical and dies out quicker. Its okay to make out and have lots of kisses but the sex should be when they have really gotten to know eachother. If Alpha cares at all where this is going he should woo her and court her. The sex will come with time. You said that would not sit well with you if Alpha called you so soon ? I think initially its very important to show her your are interested. Once she * gets that * then things get more settled and calm, she wont be wondering . If she has her stuff together and is not playing Alpha . then she will appreciate his chivilary.
Touche Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 i haven't talked with susan since friday, she called me last. she's leaving for NJ on Tuesday until Sunday. Now, here are my options, what should i do? don't call her and wait for her to call me, whenever that may becall her say around Wed while she's in NJ just to say hicall her after Sunday when she gets back from NJdon't do anythinggo out and meet other girls and forget about SusanI'm sort of leaning towards option #1. Just wondering what the difference is between number 1 and number 4. Looks the same to me. And for the record, I'd go for option 2..not that you'll listen. Silly boy games work for silly girls maybe. But she doesn't sound like a silly girl.
westernxer Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 i know this susan woman likes me but you guys have made me all paranoid and stuff Hence the reason I don't share any of my personal gains or pains. I'd rather succeed or screw up on my own. LOL
whichwayisup Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Chillax man. She'll call you while she's away or she'll call you when she's back. Don't go do something stupid and date another woman.
Mary3 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Chillax man. She'll call you while she's away or she'll call you when she's back. Don't go do something stupid and date another woman. Agreed . That is if you want a future with this girl. If you dont , then be a player and date a few girls.
Land Shark Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Hence the reason I don't share any of my personal gains or pains. I'd rather succeed or screw up on my own. LOL Same here. .
Sweetcheripie Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 i haven't talked with susan since friday, she called me last. she's leaving for NJ on Tuesday until Sunday. Now, here are my options, what should i do?don't call her and wait for her to call me, whenever that may becall her say around Wed while she's in NJ just to say hicall her after Sunday when she gets back from NJdon't do anythinggo out and meet other girls and forget about SusanI'm sort of leaning towards option #1. I vote for #2
Mary3 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 I vote for #2 I agree. I vote # 2 and call her Wednesday just to say hi.
Touche Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Same here. . Good one Sharky! You're so funny. Ok, now see? The ladies are all saying number 2. Well except for Which. I'm kinda surprised at your advice Which.
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