A diffrent angle

[bluewolf17]

I have posted here quite a bit..been "coping" for 4 months now. My post today is simple. I feel good. Really good actually. Happy. My life is starting to become normal again. I am sure you all know what I mean. It's hard to start life over, without them. You don't know what to do without them. So you fill the time. I did that, and felt like I was just going through the motions, but lately, I have felt like my life is starting to feel normal. I don't feel like I am waiting for somthing. I just am living, and liking it. I like my "me time".

 

I just posted so many down and out posts (because that's why we are here) I just thought I would post for those who might just be starting out. It does get better. Life goes on. You will feel whole, and good again. My self esteem is coming back. I feel feisty In a whim, I am joining my roomate in Seattle this weekend. She works (photography) so while she is gone all day Saturday and Sunday, I will get on some ferries and go to some islands, take in the Pike Place Market, and show myself an awesome time. It's going to be a really awesome weekend. I got a new Chuck Palahnuck book, and it's burning a whole in my purse.

 

Sorry to ramble..it does get better. I think of him sure, but not in the same way. More of in a "he better not contact me" kind of way. Because that would be uncomfortable. For him.

 

Good weekend everyone.

 

Bluewolf

[Sevenscars]

You are being!

 

There is nothing better than being in the moment. You forget the past, you drop your worries of the future, and you just concentrate on being here and alive. What does an ex matter!

 

It does get better, a lot faster than people would think. You realize that you will still be alive long after they are gone, and indeed that is a happy thought.

 

You better show yourself a good time up in those islands, you deserve that and all the spiritual and physical healing that will accompany it. Get something small and great from the market, and have it be your very own little medallion of healing.

 

Have a fun weekend!

 

We just posted very similar posts at the same exact time.

[Nedved]

Seeing new places and living for the moment are fantastic ways of getting over your ex. Your creating new memories without them and when you think of your trip to seattle or wherever your ex won't be part of those thoughts. It'l be all about you and how you enjoyed yourself. I'm just back from a little trip myself where i took in two cities and really enjoyed exploring them without her.

 

Good luck and enjoy

[Road To Joy]

I'm going through this as well. I get sad sometimes, though. Do you? And the thought of her loving someone else dearly and not caring at all about me still bugs me some. It'll all come with time, though, right?