hrtbrk hotel tenant Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 here is a brief run-down of my story...met a beautiful gurl 3 yrs ago but she was separated. We became friends but she neva really let go of a lot of guys and this one guy she has continued to hold on to. Broke up with me 3 wks ago and went over this guys house the next night. I check ur phone records(unfortunately cuz i know his number) and they talk constantly and she has been over his house several times. She is constantly talking to him sometimes at 2 o'clock in the morning. I am beyond crushed. I tried the NC thing(not really) for a few dayz at a time but i still check her phone records and i occasionally see her at the gym. When i see her i try to cordial and speak but try not to be clingy cuz i really want her. Shot her an email telling her thanx for the good time and that i love her and she can call sometime or hang out if she wants. She has yet to call but calling dude ALL THE TIME. I know i should check her phone records cuz it is making me crazy it is obvious that she is feeling him but love is truly blind i dont want to accept it i want to hear it from her but i already know the ans. i hate love right now i need medical attention cuz im lovesick...back on the NC thing again though tryin not to check her phone records and tryin not to bump into her at the gym. Will not call her for a long while to see whassup.....workin on me right now but it hurts that she has moved on so quickly. She says she is not in love with me anymore that we dont have an emotional connection but i think we can we had a lot of issues to deal with in the beginning. Is it false hope? dont know but we shall see....
Thomas X Forever Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 Usually people who jump from relationship to relationship suffer from: A). Dependent Personality Disorder or B). Borderline Personality Disorder
loveshy Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 Time to move on... Reading your previous story... I guess the relationship was not healthy for both of you..
boogieboy Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 Well you can write this one off. And make sure next time you take heed of the red flags. If youre going to involve yourself with a woman like this again, keep your heart out of it.
Battlewax Posted June 27, 2009 Posted June 27, 2009 Also you may want to keep in mind, she could be seeking advice just someone to talk to. I have several very close female friends and they have helped me immensely during this time. On Sunday I was talking to one till 4 in the morning. Could be either way. As for false hope, yes, right now it is.
Missing Soul Posted June 27, 2009 Posted June 27, 2009 I Know the feeling I'm going through the same thing.
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