bitteorca Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 hey I've been out with this girl twice, but not sure what to make of it First time went ok I thought. SHE gave me a kiss at the end, just a peck Second time, she randomly just kissed me (proper kind) and did the same at the end. It's just she never initiates a text or anything. I feel like a loser texting her all the time. She does text back quickly and everythin. I don't know whether her not initiating it is just her, or whether its a sign kind of thing. Another thing, she was texting this other guy when we were out the second time. Only like 3 texts. I asked her who it was and she sed just a mate. I asked her again (neeeedddy haha) she said it was nothing, just someone who shes been talking to. I don't know her well enough to know whether shes telling the truth. Mixed signals: she's initiated kissage, she always seems up for doing something with me when I ask, she texts me back quickly and everything, we get along well wen were together....although: she never initiates texts, and she is potentially talking to another guy. I have no idea. Not been single for a while haha Am I being a bit too needy here? Suppose I was with my girlfriend for 3.5 years and Im not used to this! Thanks for your help
dreamergrl Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 You shouldn't have asked her who she was texting. Frankly right now, it's none of your business (two dates). Most guys will do the initiating at first. Nothing wrong with that. She's made moves on you. I don't see the problem.
Author bitteorca Posted June 26, 2009 Author Posted June 26, 2009 yeah fair enough. I suppose I'm just not used to it! So you think me always texting her first isn't a bad thing? Any other opinions on the matter?!
dreamergrl Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 yeah fair enough. I suppose I'm just not used to it! So you think me always texting her first isn't a bad thing? Any other opinions on the matter?! Nope I don't think it's a bad thing. Now if we're talking months down the road, and many dates later... then I'd be concerned.
MrFun Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 I feel like a loser texting her all the time. She does text back quickly and everythin. Must be the younger generation . Don't text around. Just text to set up a date to meet in person. I asked her again (neeeedddy haha) she said it was nothing You shouldn't care, she's out with you, isn't she? although: she never initiates texts, and she is potentially talking to another guy. See it from her perspective. She's texting other potential mates and you're nagging her to answer you questions. Keep doing it and she's be turned off of you. Frankly, so would I Let her text who ever. Do not ask her, it's her business. Text to meet up with her and not more than that. Show her a good time when you meet up. Time will tell. I have no idea. Not been single for a while haha Am I being a bit too needy here? Suppose I was with my girlfriend for 3.5 years and Im not used to this! Needy and controlling.
Author bitteorca Posted June 27, 2009 Author Posted June 27, 2009 saw her out last night. She was talking to her ex bf. I also saw her kissing the guy who she was texting haha I knew I wasn't wrong. She said she wasn't over her ex bf properly. I told her I'm not over my ex gf properly. But if we like each other I don't see a problem. I don't know. She has texted me saying it isn't easy for her, she likes me but doesn't know what to do. She hasn't messed me around because she likes me. She kissed that other guy though?! ha Am I just causing myself problems here?! I don't really need this!
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