t0ri Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 Ok so my ex dumped me and we didn't speak for three weeks. Then he came crawling back second-guessing his decision. He "pretended," I guess, to reconcile with me, but ended it again a month later. During our supposed gradual reconciliation, he told me he was still in love with me, that he had realized I had every quality he could ever want, he'd always love me, blah blah. Bull ****. But what confused me was that he told me he "kind of" wanted me to get pregnant! I had gotten pregnant a year and a half into our relationship, but I miscarried. Why would he "kind of" want me to get pregnant again? Our friends and my family did not want us to be together. Could he have wanted me to get pregnant to have a reason for people to accept us being together? He told me during our month of reconciliation, "If you get pregnant, we HAVE to get back together," and then he wasn't worried about using birth control. I don't get it. Then he dumped me again a week or two later. Another question. At that exact point that I got pregnant, our entire relationship changed. He pulled away from that point on, and I clung tighter unfortunately. Why would he be so dedicated to he and I's relationship until I got pregnant and miscarried, and then do a 180? I'm not dwelling on these things, I'm actually moving on quite nicely I'm just curious of your opinions.
Thomas X Forever Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 What the hell? I think it's easiest to just say, some people have no rhyme or reason, and are clinically psychopathic.
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