13arkansas Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 My friends and I are having this debate: if you have started dating someone you met online, what is the etiquette in continuing to check your profile? In my case I've seen a lot of the same guy within a 1wk-10 day period (4 dates), which included dinner out, dinner at my place, movie date at my place, etc, so nice date nights, and we get on great, and because it seems sweet and there has been some intimacy, I don't want to ruin it by being blatantly checking my profile - its kinda in your face, if you know what I mean? I actually don't mind if he/I are still looking around, it just comes across as so indiscreet and clumsy when you both see 'active' on your profiles after sharing all those sweet moments recently. But then again I don't want him thinking I'm being presumptious that I instantly think we're in a R. What are your thoughts on this? Maybe there's no right answer....
Seer Watch My Ass Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 If I thought I'd found a woman that could love me like I can love her, I would lose all grasp on reality. She will perfectly fine with that because ideally that is what she wants to do, too, ignore the dogma of etiquette that society imprisions with.
Author 13arkansas Posted June 26, 2009 Author Posted June 26, 2009 A nice reply - thanks! Meaning...you wouldn't care which she did? And would you prefer her to just talk to you about this/what you're both comfortable with, or is that too forward?
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