bubbleskeeps023 Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 another 2 weeks of holiday from his work means 2 weeks of our minimal communication. and it again hurts me.. and it made me blew out. i cried. i told him hes so unfair.its like 2 weeks of holiday also from our relationship. i cant even contact him when i badly need him. i dont feel loved and cared now.. i feel worthless.. he never even thot bout all the things i did for him. i never been appreciated.. yah u aRE all right. im like a prostitute without pay.. even all i need is affection
Mino Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 another 2 weeks of holiday from his work means 2 weeks of our minimal communication. and it again hurts me.. and it made me blew out. i cried. i told him hes so unfair.its like 2 weeks of holiday also from our relationship. i cant even contact him when i badly need him. i dont feel loved and cared now.. i feel worthless.. he never even thot bout all the things i did for him. i never been appreciated.. yah u aRE all right. im like a prostitute without pay.. even all i need is affection Are you getting the picture now? As long as he is married, you will be in pain. Sweetie, take this time, to get your life back on track, go out with friends, go on a date. NC is the best way to heal. Trust me, This is your chance, if you dont take it now, you will be going through much more pain in the long run. Take it now! ((hugs))
Lyssa Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 No one wants to go through the pain of sharing the person you love. You don't feel appreciated and you know it - so go NC now so that you can heal!
fooled once Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 You shouldn't rely on a man to make you feel loved, needed, wanted or validated. In time, as you mature, you will realize that this is NOT a relationship -- you are a play toy for a man old enough to be your father. Go find friends your own age and start dating someone your own age. Stop waiting by the phone for a man who isn't 'yours' anyway.
whichwayisup Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 What you're looking for - Love, affection, respect, companionship, a priority - You can find with a single man. Continue on the path you're on, you KNOW that your MM cannot and willnot provide this for you. You're the OW in his life, nothing more. Either accept your role in his life or end it. You knew he was married when you got involved with him so to expect him to put you first over his wife, kids, family or even himself is just asking for disappointment. You have expectations on him that he can't and won't meet, ever. End it and save yourself. Get counselling if need be, or talk to your parents.
torranceshipman Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 You not pathetic, but you're acting in a pathetic way without any dignity, and you're better than that, and you need to stop! Right now you're a doormat. He treats you like crap, goes home to his real family, and gives you nothing, no love or affection, and in return, you hang on his every word, love him, tell him how much you need him, and cry over him. You need to see that there is no R here at all - and you need to leave with your dignity! You are SO much better than this - stop lowering yourself, and find a guy who is worthy of your affections, who is going to give you the love and affection that you need...
sugarmomma Posted June 27, 2009 Posted June 27, 2009 another 2 weeks of holiday from his work means 2 weeks of our minimal communication. and it again hurts me.. and it made me blew out. i cried. i told him hes so unfair.its like 2 weeks of holiday also from our relationship. i cant even contact him when i badly need him. i dont feel loved and cared now.. i feel worthless.. he never even thot bout all the things i did for him. i never been appreciated.. yah u aRE all right. im like a prostitute without pay.. even all i need is affection Wow!! I feel for you so badly. No fun being in love by yourself. Please get help for yourself. ((hugs))
D-Lish Posted June 27, 2009 Posted June 27, 2009 I guess I am not sure what surprises you about this. I don't think you are pathetic, but surely misguided.
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