hp321 Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 So long story short. My gf left me 2½ months ago, after we went out for 4½ months. In the end of may I was doing okay, and started to see a new girl. Of course in the back of my mind, I knew it was a rebound, but I really liked her, so I guess I convinced myself, that it was okay. I told her we had to take it slow, and she was okay with that. All along, my grieve from my ex was still there, and I in the last week it became clearer, that they we're becoming stronger and shrouding what I felt for this new girl. Yesterday, I told her, and we decided to end it. She really liked me and is feeling terrible. I too, am feeling like **** for a number of reasons. - The fact that I "used" her these 3 weeks as my rebound - I really like her alot, and it really hurts I might now see her again. She really has all quilaties I want in a girl. Extremely smart, really nice, and sexy. - That after 2½ months from the original breakup, I am still feeling sad - I actually have serious doubts if I have done the right thing. But she wanted a "real" relationship, somthing I can't offer her right now... Just had to get this of my chest. Any comments are welcome.
Author hp321 Posted June 26, 2009 Author Posted June 26, 2009 argh, I am just totally confused right now. A huge part of me just want's to get back together with her. I am really beginning to wonder if I did the right thing. I have a close friend, who says I'm just confused (which is totally true)
NopeNah Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 If she wants a relationship, right now..and you don't.. There's NO question...good move on both parts! Those "rebounds" can be tricky! Let her be and heal YOURSELF!!!
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