sultry33 Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 A week ago my friend asked me an my bf if we wanted to go to clubs with her an her bf.on sat, . i asked my bf and he agreed..even said he would drive so was all planned. last night he said cant go now as his friend had called so was seeing him.. i was like "oh ok" but today im actually quite annoyed and my friend is too, she cannot get out much so was looking forward to it..plus prob be more than a month before she can get a sitter again. i could go on my own but id feel awkward as she be with her bf also because he said he would drive i did not budget for extra fare money which would be alot and now no time to save:rolleyes: have beer money lol i just think we are past the dating stage he has already said he is in love with me etc, so why the blow out? if it was early days and he wanted to see a mate sure no problem but to bail on a couple thing and without great reason i feel is not right When he has invited me to friends do's etc i have gone so do feel its one sided.. and im not doing that again as my prev rs was very much one sided. Question is if i do say something will it appear needy or will he feel bullied into attending.. then if he does go will i feel i pressured him:eek: life was so much simplier in singleton:laugh: he wants me to go to a bus thing next sunday .. which i now feel like not attending but i dont play games.. i have not replied to text he sent me early evening as im still unsure what to say any advice? x
lora22 Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 I think it's bs that he blew off plans with you to hang out with someone else. I'm all about guys have guy time and same for girls, but not when it means blowing off established plans to do so. That's rude and disrespectful. Say something to him about it!
murphomatic Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 I think it's bs that he blew off plans with you to hang out with someone else. I'm all about guys have guy time and same for girls, but not when it means blowing off established plans to do so. That's rude and disrespectful. Say something to him about it! I agree with Lora on this. You guys had established plans, and he'd even offered to be instrumental in those plans by way of providing transportation. The fact that he blew off said plans because "his friend called" is weak sauce. Sounds like there's a deeper issue.
Author sultry33 Posted June 26, 2009 Author Posted June 26, 2009 thanks, was hoping it was not me over reacting going to sleep on it as i dont know what to do.. need to talk to him though as not putting up with it:mad:
Author sultry33 Posted June 26, 2009 Author Posted June 26, 2009 well i told him today that it had upset me that he blew me off so easily when we had confirmed plans.. said i had one sided rs before and was not going through that again etc he has said sorry an that he forgot and double booked , called me etc so looks like party is back on thanks for advice x
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