redant Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 Secretly do they want to be Hugh Hefner or the P M of Italy? They are saying the PM is having relations with an 18 yr old and he's 70. This makes me wonder about men!
Crx Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 hmm, i dont are a playboy... I think you should always be yourself
EddieN Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 Sometime in my life I would like to try a life like that. I think it would be fun for a bit, but after some time I think I would get bored of it and feel empty and think that a relationship could fill that void that the playboy life doesn't provide. I think the life of the main character in the movie Iron Man is perfect. When I saw that movie I thought, "This guy has it MADE." I remember one line in it was a guy asking him, "Tony, I heard you went 12 for 12 with the Maxim cover models this past year...is that true?" I think Hugh Hefner is a cheesy old fart though.
Stark Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 Nope, but if I was 70 I sure as hell would like a 20 year old, which guy wouldn't tbh.
Jersey Shortie Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 I don't consider some 70 year old man a playboy just because he got some 18 year old to pathetically sleep with him. I actually think both people in this situation are gross. Look at the girls that left Hugh Hefner and how they have moved on to men that are more their age. They used Hugh as a leg up. These girls didn't respect him as a man. I think Hugh is kind of a joke.
Woggle Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 Hugh Hefner lives the life that any man that is honest with himself wants to live. I have great respect for him. He is a self made millionare who built an empire through hard work and loosened up America in the process.
NoTNorMal Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 Real Men get married, have a family, and don't cheat. You apparently are referring boys, that's why it's called Playboy not Playman.
Nightmare Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 No not for me. Would prefer to have a stabile commited relationship. Coming home to the same person who truly loves me like I love them is all I need. Call me old fashioned. However now that Im single, I wouldnt mind living that lifestyle till I found the right person.
Woggle Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 Real Men get married, have a family, and don't cheat. You apparently are referring boys, that's why it's called Playboy not Playman. Real men live life the way they want to.
IcemanJB Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 In response to the original question: no. Doesn't appeal to me at all.
Lyssa Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 I went out with one - not knowing he was one (that's why he's a playboy ) and it was one of the most painful experiences I've encountered. Give me a real man - anytime! I'm lucky to be with one now!
Untouchable_Fire Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 Hugh Hefner lives the life that any man that is honest with himself wants to live. I have great respect for him. He is a self made millionare who built an empire through hard work and loosened up America in the process. Hefner is a douche. His "girlfriends" are glorified prostitutes... Who would want that life? I think most guys if they really think about it, want to be loved and valued for who we are... but we have learned that in reality our only value lies in what we can provide.
Woggle Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 Hefner is a douche. His "girlfriends" are glorified prostitutes... Who would want that life? I think most guys if they really think about it, want to be loved and valued for who we are... but we have learned that in reality our only value lies in what we can provide. At least he knows what the score is with his women which is more than can be said for most devoted husbands. Of course men want to be valued for who they are but how often does that happen? I am sure he has plenty of male friends and family who he leans on when he needs to.
Jersey Shortie Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 I remember reading something about that one girl Kendra and how she had to go out and get the kind of sex she really wanted from other men because well Hugh is an old man. At least he knows what the score is with his women which is more than can be said for most devoted husbands. Of course men want to be valued for who they are but how often does that happen? I am sure he has plenty of male friends and family who he leans on when he needs to. You mean the devoted husbands that wish they could have Hugh's life banging 20 year old twins? Doesn't sound like you can value women for who they are, why would you expect a woman to value you for who you are.
Woggle Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 I remember reading something about that one girl Kendra and how she had to go out and get the kind of sex she really wanted from other men because well Hugh is an old man. You mean the devoted husbands that wish they could have Hugh's life banging 20 year old twins? Doesn't sound like you can value women for who they are, why would you expect a woman to value you for who you are. No I mean the husbands who are faithful and loving while their wife who secretly hates their guts is having affairs online.
Woggle Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 Most women don't hat their man's guts Reality shows different. Also with a playboy when a woman turns from love to hate like so many do he can just chuck her and not deal with that drama. A married man is stuck with her ass especially if they have kids.
Charles1978 Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 To answer the question... no. I'm dating two women right now and it is killing my soul. As soon as I find a way out of the situation I'm in, I will resolve to never do it again. I'd imagine a "playboy" has even more than two... I cannot imagine a worse situation. People get attatched, especially women, but I do too. So, no... that lifestyle doesn't appeal to me.
Chrome Barracuda Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 Secretly do they want to be Hugh Hefner or the P M of Italy? They are saying the PM is having relations with an 18 yr old and he's 70. This makes me wonder about men! Men in power do what they want because they can, it's not about being a playboy. It depends on the individual man and who he is. If that man wants comfort with one woman he'll seek one woman, if he loves alot of women he'll do it because he wants.
Woggle Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 To answer the question... no. I'm dating two women right now and it is killing my soul. As soon as I find a way out of the situation I'm in, I will resolve to never do it again. I'd imagine a "playboy" has even more than two... I cannot imagine a worse situation. People get attatched, especially women, but I do too. So, no... that lifestyle doesn't appeal to me. You need to learn hot to be more heartless with women. It will serve you well in life.
Balthazar Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 Gain, going back to the question.... YES, I do prefer the life of a playboy... not getting attached to any woman too much and enjoying many of them. And to repeat what other posters said, most men prefer the life of the playboy, unfortunately too few can live it. Cheers,
WineCountry Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 Of course men want to be valued for who they are but how often does that happen?. Perhaps if they stopped looking for barbies who have big breasts and focus more on what kind of woman INSIDE they are dealing with, they would be more successful, eh?
WineCountry Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 You need to learn hot to be more heartless with women. It will serve you well in life. Ahh..gee..why would a woman cheat on a guy with THAT attitude? Perhaps if it wasnt well known that a lot of men secretly want to be wh*ores, you would attract more women who wont BE wh*ores.
Untouchable_Fire Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 At least he knows what the score is with his women which is more than can be said for most devoted husbands. Of course men want to be valued for who they are but how often does that happen? I am sure he has plenty of male friends and family who he leans on when he needs to. Most husbands know exactly what the score is and where they stand. You come home, hand over your paycheck... and dance like a puppet. I remember reading something about that one girl Kendra and how she had to go out and get the kind of sex she really wanted from other men because well Hugh is an old man. You mean the devoted husbands that wish they could have Hugh's life banging 20 year old twins? Doesn't sound like you can value women for who they are, why would you expect a woman to value you for who you are. Of course they did! All three of them are just dolled up whores. Who else would date Heph? Let me share a secret with you.... The top reason guys have those fantasies, is because they are not getting any at home or their wives threat them like dirt.
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