moonbeam125 Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 Hi Loveshack! Just wondering what your thoughts are on this current situation. So, I've been crushing on a younger guy for a while now and he's already expressed that he thinks we're better off as friends (this was back in about February). Things were awkward for a bit, and I think we're better friends now...I was oversensitive about his actions, but now we seem to be perfectly fine and he's helping me out on a project right now, so we see each other almost every week. In the past, I used to think he was interested in me because he would poke me or play punch. He would always poke or punch pretty hard, and I'd complain about things being painful, but he'd still poke hard. This seems characteristic to him because I know he pokes other people hard as well (girls and guys). Anyway, all of a sudden the poking has seemed to stop. I actually play punched him today and he punched back...I told him it kinda hurt and he said that my punch kinda hurt as well. It just seemed odd that he never used to express that before (that my retaliating was physically painful). But what I really found interesting was he suggested we'd go for lunch (although another friend was with us) and he seemed to want to extend our outting, we talked quite a bit and even had a long phone conversation the night before when normally he's in a rush to get off the phone. He poked my friend the past few times when we were out together (the three of us are working on a project together) and today he also played footsies with her. When I pointed out that this could be seen as a sign of flirting, he said that it wasn't because he doesn't poke people he likes and he's more interested in relationships that are intellectually stimulating. He did reveal a few small things about this personal life today when normally he's pretty reserved about his family...I guess he's just starting to get comfortable with opening up, maybe?? I was just wondering, do you think he and I are just becoming better friends, there's possibly something there, or if he's just interested in my friend. I just feel like his behaviour has changed within the past couple of weeks and was just curious about your own thoughts.
boogieboy Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 I dont know how long youve known him, but if he was into you, he would have made a real move by now. So dont worry yourself reading into every little thing he does.
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