drivesmecrazy3 Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 Okay, so theres this girl that I was friends with for awhile, and we eventually got much closer. We started being more than friends - kissing/etc. We were never official, but we did not talk to other people. One day, out of the blue, she tells me that she feels as if I am too nice for her and that I should start talking to/hanging out with other girls, and that she would do the same. I was heartbroken. I started talking to some other girl, and somehow she found out. Everytime i talked to her, she always brought this new girl up, saying things like "oh does your new girl do this for you? and this? this?." It came to the point where she asked if i had hooked up with her, and i said yes. Right after i said that, she asked me if i wanted to meet her. We did, and were all over each other. Later on when i asked why she wanted to hook up like that - she simply said that because "im fun" but she mentioned how she believed it was grimy that i was hooking up with two people at the same time, that she felt bad for the other girl. Now, i KNOW she has recently been talking to another guy. She even complains about me to him. Yesterday when she was complaining, I told her that maybe it would be best if we were just ordinary friends, with no hook ups. She said that she liked how things are and wanted to continue hooking up/kissing/etc. When i then asked her why she had told me to talk to other girls, she said this: "like honestly ill say this. I think your more than amazing. Your always there to help me when im sad and your caring and fun at the same time. You know how to please me but you never do anything to make me feel uncomfortable. And if you were to, I would trust you enough to stop. But theres just something where im like idk. The guys i usually go for arent like you. doesnt mean i dont like you though. I just really dont know what id like right now. So instead of wasting your time.. i told you to talk to other girls." Now, for some reason this statement made me happy, but then at night she kept mentioning another guy again. What the hell am i supposed to do!?!?!?!? I know that shes immature, shes only 18, im 22. She likes that "badass" kind of guys, what 18 year old doesnt - she LOVES to chase/obsess over guys. What should i do? You think i could turn this whole thing around?
Thomas X Forever Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 How many times have you posted this topic? Short answer: She is insane. And you're insane for wanting someone who is insane.
guitarplayer1234 Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 How many times have you posted this topic? Short answer: She is insane. And you're insane for wanting someone who is insane. I agree. This girl sounds completely ridiculous. I would just drop her and continue to talk to other girls. She sounds very immature and has alot of growing up to do.
boogieboy Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 No you cant turn it around. STOP talking to her. She wants to play the field, and you dont keep her attracted enough to stay with you. Concentrate on the new girl and never talk to this nutjob again. She is of no use to you.
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