nicegirl09 Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 Oh my god, is there any one out there dating a copper? Please tell me it gets easier . . .
collegekid491 Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 Having a family of cops I would have to say, no Its a demanding job with alot of stressors, takes a very strong man and a very strong woman to make that work. If its a mountie, then your doubly screwed, they have to move every 2-5 years, its a good way to screw up a kid. P.S. Just wait till he goes through one of his high risk encounters, some people can't handle the fact that one day they may not come home
Author nicegirl09 Posted June 24, 2009 Author Posted June 24, 2009 no he's not a mountie just going studying for promotion . . head in text book 24/7, no time to study properly, off on courses . . cant believe they dont have a day off!
sultry33 Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 hi what sort of problems? i was with one for 4 yrs...
bean1 Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 Mounties don't move every 2-5 years anymore, they got rid of that policy a few years ago. Sorry nicegirl, I work in law enforcement (which I am slowly weaning out of) and so does my SO. Here's the deal: there are TWO different kinds in this world. 1) One who doesn't put the job over their girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/wife/family 2) One that does. #1, like my SO and I, are fine as partners. #2.... well, is a disaster in the making. A lot of people get sucked into the long hours (which, by the way, are a CHOICE - no matter what he tells you) and the job consumes them. Don't get involved with those kinds of people. It doesn't matter what profession, doctors and lawyers are the same way.
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