struckby Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 Here is why I am wondering if she is only interested in friendship: She never initiates contact - but always responds to texts and calls quickly and asks me questions backShe never tells me she misses me when I text her that I miss her However, I asked her out two days ago, saying, "I'd like to take you out to dinner..." I never told her exactly what else she we would be doing before her response and she said yes to the date. We went out before, to a dinner/movie date with a long walk around our college campus late at night. Before that we have gone out with friends, coffee, and a few other activities between just us. This has been going on for about two months or more. We are now away from college for the summer and I am driving up this weekend to see her (4 hours round trip). So, do some girls say yes to a date even though they are not interested in anything further? To you experts...does she seem interested at all? She is a shy person who has never been in a relationship before, neither have I. Thanks for the help.
mistletoe Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 There're some girls who are just traditional by heart and wish to only 'reply' but no make the first move. like me! anyways, i think that it doesnt mean that when she responds in this manner (like not saying I miss you back) doesn't mean she's not interested in a relationship. Neither am I giving you hope! I do not know her so i can't really speak for how she feels. What i do know is that this is how my bf and i started about 1.5 years ago. I was pretty shy too:love: What I'm merely saying is to just be cool and give it a go. It's great that you guys have been hanging out previously quite often. whether this will turn out for good, no one knows! but just go with the flow and dont push too hard!
Author struckby Posted June 25, 2009 Author Posted June 25, 2009 I've asked her out now over 3 times...would she really continue to say yes if she wasn't interested?
dressing up Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 I've asked her out now over 3 times...would she really continue to say yes if she wasn't interested? I seriously doubt it. I wouldn't.
Jilly Bean Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 I've asked her out now over 3 times...would she really continue to say yes if she wasn't interested? It depends. Is there NO question that you are dating? I mean, is there any physical intimacy, or romance?
Author struckby Posted June 25, 2009 Author Posted June 25, 2009 It depends. Is there NO question that you are dating? I mean, is there any physical intimacy, or romance? No I don't think there is a question at all. We are both shy so there isn't a lot of physical intimacy yet. I mean we hug longer than normal and she always seems to linger longer than a normal friend would. As for romance, I can't really answer that as I am not sure there is a way to define romance within reasonable, confined boundaries. The last date though was an obvious date. I took her out to dinner and a movie, paying for both, then we went on a long walk around our college campus and ended up on a bench and talked for awhile about each other. I think for us though it might be different since we both really haven't dated at all and we are both college age.
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