motive2002 Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 I've wondered about this. I know my ex is with my ex-best friend now, and from what I'm told he has a small member. So I'm curious, what do you ladies say to your small men? Furthermore, what do you say to a guy that finishes too quickly? You must say something to make him feel alright. I am lucky in the fact that I am neither small nor finish too soon, so I've never had to hear whatever the talk might be to give reassurance from a man suffering from either of those conditions
D-Lish Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 I don't say anything... When you truly care about someone, none of that stuff matters much.
Art_Critic Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 what do you ladies say to your small men? Is it in yet, Tampon Dick ?
Author motive2002 Posted June 24, 2009 Author Posted June 24, 2009 I don't say anything... When you truly care about someone, none of that stuff matters much. I was hoping for more brutal honesty than that. Can a woman be satisfied with a guy that is both small and comes too soon? Maybe I've banked too much on my own prowess. Maybe that's only a small piece of the puzzle?
Art_Critic Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 Maybe that's only a small piece of the puzzle? No pun intended .. Are you secretly hoping he is being tormented by her comments about how small his member is and that she is wishing she had your piece between her legs instead ?... it ain't gonna happen
D-Lish Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 I was hoping for more brutal honesty than that. Can a woman be satisfied with a guy that is both small and comes too soon? Maybe I've banked too much on my own prowess. Maybe that's only a small piece of the puzzle? Want brutal honesty? If he has a great tongue, he can cum as quick as he wants afterwards....
Trialbyfire Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 motive, is her birthday coming soon? If so, send her a magnifying glass and a vibrator, so she too, can be satisfied.
Author motive2002 Posted June 24, 2009 Author Posted June 24, 2009 motive, is her birthday coming soon? If so, send her a magnifying glass and a vibrator, so she too, can be satisfied. That was AWESOME! No her last birthday i sent her flowers. This was before she went after my best friend I'm told from other sources that he is a lousy lay. I just wonder how she could go from me to him and still be happy lol.
Trialbyfire Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 That was AWESOME! No her last birthday i sent her flowers. This was before she went after my best friend I'm told from other sources that he is a lousy lay. I just wonder how she could go from me to him and still be happy lol.I'm totally aghast at the two and how they can justify getting together. People suck bad, sometimes. In the interim, she's probably laying there wondering when it's going to happen while he's already smoking a cigarette!
Author motive2002 Posted June 24, 2009 Author Posted June 24, 2009 No pun intended .. Are you secretly hoping he is being tormented by her comments about how small his member is and that she is wishing she had your piece between her legs instead ?... it ain't gonna happen She'll be wishing for it at some point. They all seem to LOL. I've had more booty calls from exes... I must have done something right hehe. Please take what I post with a little grain of salt. I'm still bitter and confused from her leaving me for him. Plus I've had a couple.. so yenno...
BobSacamento Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 Hey I have a nice phrase you should familiarize yourself with. "I don't like to toot my own horn but..." Enjoy
Citizen Erased Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 Is it in yet, Tampon Dick ? You really should be nicer to your male lovers Art.
MichiganMan222 Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 Add fuel to the fire. Tell him how good the sexual chemistry was between you two was and describe the sweat-filled multi-hour sex sessions you two had regularly. After a couple of their encounters, he will get very insecure and start annoying the crap out of her constantly fishing for reassurance after comparing their sessions with the images you put in his head. Either that or tell him she loves unexpected hot-carls while she's sleeping.
lora22 Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 I just read the OP and not the responses. Probably I'm an ass hole, but seriously, a guy's issue with the size of his dick is NOT my problem. He was born that way, and it's not my job to make him feel OK about himself. Therefore I don't say anything. I mean, I realize this makes me sound totally uncaring (which I'm not) but I don't want to deal with a guy's small penis AND his small ego/lack of confidence/whatever. So he can be small and have confidence, but he can't be small and be a weenie about it. Likewise, if he finishes too quickly (like one-two-done) that's not OK. So I won't tell him it's OK. I won't be a jerk about it or make him feel bad about it, but I don't tell him it's OK. Sex is about both people, not just him. I would work with him on that issue and try to find something that worked for both of us, but I would not be like "oh that's OK, I didn't need to come anyways."
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