t0ri Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 Do you guys like it when a girl approaches you, or takes the initiative to start contact? Or do you prefer to do that yourself? Just curious because most of the time my friends and I go out, it seems like men are too intimidated to come talk to us. It could be that they're not interested, of course, but we're pretty good looking so I wonder if my friends and I seem unapproachable. Last night a friend and I were in a bar full of men who stared at us and were obviously talking about us, but only one approached us. I've gone up to a few guys lately and started conversation, and I've been the one to initiate contact with a guy from one of my classes, who then asked me out Anyway, do you like for the girl to approach you, or is that weird?? I'm new to it so I figured I'd ask if men even like it. And how do girls act that you find unapproachable???
kostoronto Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 I love it. If I think a girl is unapproachable, she's usually busy doing something, with a large group of friends, or just has this look on her face. I can't really describe it. It's mostly instinct.
My name is ED Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 hello, i think its a double standard thing. so frankly i personally think the guy should approach but then again they might come off as pervs and if the girl approached they might come of as easy.. so i think it all depends on where you are and how you do it. so i think it doesn't matter, thats what i think. -ED
Author t0ri Posted June 24, 2009 Author Posted June 24, 2009 hello, i think its a double standard thing. so frankly i personally think the guy should approach but then again they might come off as pervs and if the girl approached they might come of as easy.. so i think it all depends on where you are and how you do it. so i think it doesn't matter, thats what i think. -ED Well I definitely don't want to give the wrong impression and come off as easy! Hmmm, I hadn't really thought of that.
zhsoj Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 You will only come off as easy to looser guys. Don't worry about it. Grab life by the horns and all that ****. Afterwards knock back a few beers.
BobSacamento Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 A good move for women to do to get a man's attention, or at least I've had it happen and it got my attention and sparked some conversation, is the "Bump into". I'm not sure this is a move women use regularly but when I'm out at a bar occasionally, even when there's not much of a crowd, a woman will stand extremely close to me. Then while dancing or just talking to friends will bump into me. Of course women like to hunt in packs, just like you said. Now alone a single woman is not intimidating but in groups, it can be brutal. My suggestion is to break up occasionally.
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