Snake6661 Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 Ok so about 8 months ago I met this chick online (no i'm not some fat kid, and yes I can get girls but im tired of sluts at my school) and she seemed really cool and we really liked each other, so we made this agreement that we wouldnt hook up with other people. Well about a month ago she started going out with this dude and said her excuse was that I didnt text for like a week or something and that i was too far away and he was there, so i said ok and still talked to her and I said ok pick me or him to stay with, and she picked him. So i said screw her and I moved on and didn't talk to her. Well then a couple days later she texts me saying shes single and that she made a mistake and she knows what it feels like to miss someone you really like and she wants to really be with me and I might see her over the summer, so now we're starting to talk again but she says things that just makes me wonder about if she does really like me or if she even cares, and she keeps saying how much she does and everything The question is should I still stay with her? I told her i need sometime to think, I mean shes picked this one dude over me twice but she says she wants to start over and not look into the past, Am i stupid for still liking this girl and wanting to be with her still after all of that? Thanks for reading this and your input, Jake.
samspade Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 She either a) wants to f**k around, or b) liked this dude better, and got dumped by him. I don't know how you can "stay with" her if she's dating other guys (and also if you only know each other online and are LD). Of course she doesn't want to look into the past. She's already banged that guy, and it sounds like it's over, so she's back to you because she knew you'd be there. You weren't stupid for liking her, but you WERE stupid for expecting her to be exclusive with you, sight unseen. Your other mistake was giving her an ultimatum. My advice is to see what you can get out of her, but don't be so desperate, and find some other girls in your neck of the woods.
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