Author heartbrokenxxxx Posted June 26, 2009 Author Posted June 26, 2009 so what happened love shy when you met your ex again and what was your situation?
asuman Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 yer but wont that show that im not over him though? Well, you're not over him. i feel silly that i suggested friends and to meet up then suddenly say i dont think its a good idea, wont he think.. wtf? What he thinks isn't quite as important as what you feel. If you leave it as a simple cancellation, he could very well think you cancelled for any one of 8 million different reasons. You're over-analyzing.
Author heartbrokenxxxx Posted June 26, 2009 Author Posted June 26, 2009 i no im not over him but i dont want him to know that. yer i supose i am over analysing, but its so hard not to tho i will email him to cancel and just ignore him from then so i start NC again, only this time i wont be waiting for a call or appology. i doubt he will chase up with me to arrange another day anyway.
Author heartbrokenxxxx Posted June 29, 2009 Author Posted June 29, 2009 guess what guys? he didnt even reply to my email (was waiting for a reply to my email as i wrote last then was going to tell him i wasnt able to meet him) i sent that email on thurs night and he didnt write back or get in contact to arrange where we are meeting on tuesday (which is tomorrow) so after all that he didnt even chase up meeting me! so after all the splitting up with me and me taking him back all those times, then me making effort after all hes treated me like cos i felt bad how we ended and wanted to be friends and he throws it in my face?!?! i no i decided i wasnt going to meet him, but he didnt know that did he? well i definately know im well rid of him but i feel i have well and truely been shat on!!! i feel like a bigger mug than ever before!! whats his game???
ryanrabl Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 Go..only on one condition:To receive closure on the breakup..after that go back into NC and leave it at that.If you think he wont give you closure..dont go.
Battlewax Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 I haven't really read any of the responses in the thread. I'm going to say why I met with my ex. I wanted to know how I felt. We had a great time the other day. It also helped me realize that I'm not over her and it's going to cause me pain to drag it out. I'm still going to mull it all over. Everybody is different. You need to be really honest with yourself and the situation at hand.
Beeotch Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 guess what guys? he didnt even reply to my email (was waiting for a reply to my email as i wrote last then was going to tell him i wasnt able to meet him) i sent that email on thurs night and he didnt write back or get in contact to arrange where we are meeting on tuesday (which is tomorrow) so after all that he didnt even chase up meeting me! so after all the splitting up with me and me taking him back all those times, then me making effort after all hes treated me like cos i felt bad how we ended and wanted to be friends and he throws it in my face?!?! i no i decided i wasnt going to meet him, but he didnt know that did he? well i definately know im well rid of him but i feel i have well and truely been shat on!!! i feel like a bigger mug than ever before!! whats his game??? Atleast you now have no reason to be holding on and wondering if not meeting him was right...he PROVED himself to be not worth it so you can move forward knowing that. I was telling another poster in another thread that sometimes these people's actions make no sense...sometimes they too are on an emotional rollercoaster...which is why you cannot rely on them to keep their promises, or consider your feelings but you have to take a stand for yourself. I do not think that they all sit around planning to manipulate us...but sometimes they themselves don't know what they're feeling and care only about themselves so don't even think of how their actions hurt us or change their minds every other second....who has time to be strung along whether on purpose or by accident? Hope you feel better and happy about your decision soon.
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