Second Chance ... but still don't understand

[VideoKid]

My boyfriend broke up with me on saturday ... which was my birthday. i was distraught as not only did i not want to break up but i wanted a nice birthday for once and it all ended in a huge row.

we talked about it sunday and he said he didn't want to get back together as we argued too much, which i didn't feel was true, we argue occasionally but not an excessive amount and that he didn't love me. he said it was a long time coming, we just didn't work together at all and he saw no future for us.

i expressed that i didn't want to split up and after alot of talking (and begging unfortunately) he agreed we'd give it another chance as he couldn't put me through this but if this didn't work then that was it. things were ok that night but he was still questionning if he'd done the right thing in giving us another go.

 

However i woke up yesterday morning feeling horrible, i felt like i'd bribed him into getting back together with me so i got in touch to tell him if he wanted us to split up, it was ok. However, he was really nice to me. I was going to be in all day as I was packing to move house so we spoke on webcam for a while and he was treating me like gold, calling me cute names and acting nicer than he ever had. he even told me he loved me, that he was glad he had me and that i shouldn't dwell on what happened. he told me he was well happy that his girlfriend was being nice again and made a massive point of the fact he'd changed his facebook picture to one of both of us for the first time ever.

 

This morning i woke up to a text from him saying i should ring him when i woke up, so i did. he was still being nicer than ever. i was really confused so i lightly questionned it, saying i was happy with the nice treatment but confused at why he was doing it as he was adamant that we should not be together a couple of days ago. he simply said "because you wanted to give it another try and have been nice to me, so i was returning that". i don't think he's ever been this nice to me.

 

i know i shouldn't be complaining as i got a second chance but it feels false. i haven't seen him since sunday night when we got back together, he keeps promising to see me then calling it off as he's tired/just going to stay in/seeing friends.

 

anyone got any idea why he's being overly nice to me suddenly? does it seem genuine or is he messing around?

[Sevenscars]

He broke up with you on your birthday...and you still want to even look at him?

 

"It has been a long time coming" -- well then a few more days would not have hurt. But your freaking birthday? This boy does not give a flying F about you. He didn't do that by chance, nor by convenience. He meant it to hurt.

 

If you feel like it's not genuine, then it is not genuine. Go with your gut on this one. He does not deserve to be with you anyway, drop the crap out of him and stop talking to him (!!!) before he gets you again.