LisaUk Posted July 19, 2009 Posted July 19, 2009 I wouldn't worry about it Lisa, sounds like you have the situation by the tail, just be confident and all will work out for the best. :p:p NOBODY KNOWS WHAT WERE TALKING ABOUT HaHaHa :p:p (I'm such a child) TOJAZ :laugh: I want to keep it quiet for now.
Author tojaz Posted July 19, 2009 Author Posted July 19, 2009 Your right, mums the word. Check your PM!
Author tojaz Posted July 19, 2009 Author Posted July 19, 2009 Done, wrote back, maybe I'm crazy, but I really think so.
Chubbi Posted July 20, 2009 Posted July 20, 2009 Liza- I'm not Tojaz's anything but i think you already realized. That part in your post actually made me smile. I'm just a random commentator who thought the discussion had gone a bit one-sided, and of course, in all these emotions can run high. You defended your position genuinely and well enough so now I have nothing to say. I had thought earlier what you wrote was unjustly applied to his W. I disagree with you though that there are only two reasons to end a marriage. There are a lot of reasons. It's the sum of those reasons that could equal divorce.
Author tojaz Posted July 20, 2009 Author Posted July 20, 2009 OK, I'll keep the horoscopes coming I guess, even if they are getting a bit rediculous. mine>> Someone's opportunistic tendencies have served you well in the past, but it's time that you stood on your own two feet and made the bold moves you've been letting other people make for so long. It's a good day to be assertive! This is the time when the rubber really meets the road, and you have to be consistent in what you think. If making the most of a given situation doesn't sit well with you, then you have to be willing to get along with a little bit less. hers>> Today, you need to get it in your head that asking for help is not a sign of weakness. In fact, it's a sign that you are smart enough to know your limits -- and when you are about to go past them. So before things get to the panic phase, seek the assistance you know you need. Friends who have been there before are waiting for you to ask -- they have some great suggestions especially for your ears. You'll be glad you reached out. yours>> Your routine will get disrupted today, which will get on your nerves more than it probably should. You've been on such a nice roll for so long that this new turn of events is disrupting your flow and making you cranky. The best approach for this level of frustration is not forcing things back the way you want them. It's too late for that. No, better to take a deep breath and just go with the flow. An adventure is right around the corner. his>> Spending more time with your family should be a higher priority for you right now. Don't think that you have to spend all day long with them, either. The quality time you need is not about special events or family outings. It's about experiencing the everyday stuff together -- the chores, the meals, the routine, even the bickering. Time together should be integrated into your life, not a special occasion that you need to arrange and plan. Not very good today!
LisaUk Posted July 20, 2009 Posted July 20, 2009 So, you changed your mind then! Here they are from my end Yours-If you want a quiet life, get yourself a set of earplugs-and perhaps an eye mask too. Become deaf to the comments other people are making. Become blind to the silliness that surronds you. Live in splendid isolation. Talk to no-one. Avoid all sense of belonging and commitment. Take no risks. Make no assumptions. And just be bored for evermore. You don't really want a quiet life. You were just tired of hearing a particular noise. This week's solar eclipse should bring the change that you seek. Hers-It is as if you have recently embarked on a long journey. You have many miles to cover and it is important to pace yourself along the way. Fits of impatience will have much the same psychological impact on your quest as a kid in the back of a car shouting, "are we there yet?" every five minutes. Try to find some entertaiment for the part of your heart that craves instant gratification. Divert it. Distract it. Have faith in the momentum that you have already gained-and the inevitability of your arrival at the right destination. Mine-are rubbish, so not posting! LOL His-not posting, but they do go on about gambling and not gambling what you aren't willing to lose. He did say to me after he b*****d off, that he felt he had taken a gamble, so who knows? All in all, pretty rubbish horoscopes today.
Author tojaz Posted July 21, 2009 Author Posted July 21, 2009 Hers-It is as if you have recently embarked on a long journey. You have many miles to cover and it is important to pace yourself along the way. Fits of impatience will have much the same psychological impact on your quest as a kid in the back of a car shouting, "are we there yet?" every five minutes. Try to find some entertaiment for the part of your heart that craves instant gratification. Divert it. Distract it. Have faith in the momentum that you have already gained-and the inevitability of your arrival at the right destination. That one hurt, I'm glad these are just for fun!
LisaUk Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 That one hurt, I'm glad these are just for fun! Ah, but you don't know what her destination is?! Could be a positive horoscope depending how you look at it.
Author tojaz Posted July 21, 2009 Author Posted July 21, 2009 Oh, you with the always positive outlook. You logged on pretty early. Ah, but you don't know what her destination is?! Could be a positive horoscope depending how you look at it.
Author tojaz Posted July 21, 2009 Author Posted July 21, 2009 Here they are for today. Mine>> Dear Cancer is probably in the home stretch of a big race right now. If you are this Cancer, turn up the supercharger and win this race. Don't underestimate the competition; they can still sneak up on you. Picture yourself crossing the finish line and you will be there. Hers>> Dear Virgo, today you are the cosmic mechanic. You have everything you need, now make it work. Your manual is in your chart and the planets are behind you so, figure out what is wrong and get this machine running. You've got the skills, now apply them. Yours>> Logical Libra, you're so good at finding the easy way out, you sometimes overlook the obvious. If you're having trouble multi-tasking just hire someone to do it for you. What is of primary importance is achieving your goals now. You can always take a course in the future. His>> Dear Aries, on this day, you may find yourself staring into the endless void of the future and asking yourself, is this my life? Well, it is, and it will remain a void if you don't fill it up with the right things. The planets change our lives but we are the ones that fill them up with stuff. :laugh: SERVES HIM RIGHT!!!:laugh:
LisaUk Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 Here they are for today. Mine>> Dear Cancer is probably in the home stretch of a big race right now. If you are this Cancer, turn up the supercharger and win this race. Don't underestimate the competition; they can still sneak up on you. Picture yourself crossing the finish line and you will be there. Hers>> Dear Virgo, today you are the cosmic mechanic. You have everything you need, now make it work. Your manual is in your chart and the planets are behind you so, figure out what is wrong and get this machine running. You've got the skills, now apply them. Yours>> Logical Libra, you're so good at finding the easy way out, you sometimes overlook the obvious. If you're having trouble multi-tasking just hire someone to do it for you. What is of primary importance is achieving your goals now. You can always take a course in the future. His>> Dear Aries, on this day, you may find yourself staring into the endless void of the future and asking yourself, is this my life? Well, it is, and it will remain a void if you don't fill it up with the right things. The planets change our lives but we are the ones that fill them up with stuff. :laugh: SERVES HIM RIGHT!!!:laugh: OMG, his are briilliant, hope they are accurate! Mine are dead on think anout what I PMed you the other day! No news yet though, but I am mulitasking.
Author tojaz Posted July 21, 2009 Author Posted July 21, 2009 OMG, his are briilliant, hope they are accurate! Mine are dead on think anout what I PMed you the other day! No news yet though, but I am mulitasking. I thought about your PM immediately as well! I just read your E-mail, but will have to write back after i fight through work. Have a nice day Lisa.
LisaUk Posted July 21, 2009 Posted July 21, 2009 I thought about your PM immediately as well! I just read your E-mail, but will have to write back after i fight through work. Have a nice day Lisa. Sorry for the rushed response, I feel like I am going round the bend, have so much "stuff" to get done! I haven't logged on early, its 1pm here! Have a good day at work.
Author tojaz Posted July 22, 2009 Author Posted July 22, 2009 Sorry for the rushed response, I feel like I am going round the bend, have so much "stuff" to get done! I haven't logged on early, its 1pm here! Have a good day at work. It didn't seem rushed, at all. i meant early for me, I usuall don't see you on before I go to work. I know your busy, good luck and send me an update when you get a chance. Tojaz
Author tojaz Posted July 23, 2009 Author Posted July 23, 2009 Yeah, I'm back on the horse cutie, thank yo so much!!
LisaUk Posted July 23, 2009 Posted July 23, 2009 Your welcome! OK, so here's the horoscopes for today! Yours-What do you want to go with your coffee? More coffee? Or some cream, sugar and perhaps a nice Italian cookie? And to accompany your curry? Surely, another spicy dish is overkill? Some rice or a chapati is a much better idea. Look, all I'm trying to say is that things that go well together are not always things that are similar. You are looking now for a way to match or equal an existing situation. Look instead for something different that makes the right kind of contrast to it. That's easier to find than you think. Hers- not doing hers anymore! Mine-If your judgement is accurate, nine times out of ten, should you trust it? Or should be worried lest you have strayed into the ten percent and are about to make a great mistake? It is easy to list all the things that are wrong with a situation, a realtionship or an arrangement. It is easy too, to question your own perspicacity and undermine your own confidence. Yet the fact remains that you are right far more often than you are wrong. And there is no particular reason to think you will be incorrect on this occasion. His- not doing his any more, he's in my past, don't give two hoots what is happening to him. More concerned about what is happeneing in my life.
Author tojaz Posted July 24, 2009 Author Posted July 24, 2009 Your welcome! OK, so here's the horoscopes for today! Yours-What do you want to go with your coffee? More coffee? Or some cream, sugar and perhaps a nice Italian cookie? And to accompany your curry? Surely, another spicy dish is overkill? Some rice or a chapati is a much better idea. Look, all I'm trying to say is that things that go well together are not always things that are similar. You are looking now for a way to match or equal an existing situation. Look instead for something different that makes the right kind of contrast to it. That's easier to find than you think. Hers- not doing hers anymore! Mine-If your judgement is accurate, nine times out of ten, should you trust it? Or should be worried lest you have strayed into the ten percent and are about to make a great mistake? It is easy to list all the things that are wrong with a situation, a realtionship or an arrangement. It is easy too, to question your own perspicacity and undermine your own confidence. Yet the fact remains that you are right far more often than you are wrong. And there is no particular reason to think you will be incorrect on this occasion. His- not doing his any more, he's in my past, don't give two hoots what is happening to him. More concerned about what is happeneing in my life. Good for us!!
Author tojaz Posted July 24, 2009 Author Posted July 24, 2009 Thanks MayI, it's been a rough few days with all thats happened recently, but I'm getting my head together and should be around. Tojaz
Author tojaz Posted July 24, 2009 Author Posted July 24, 2009 OK, the beat goes on. Mine>> Dear Cancer, if you are lucky, you are lucky in love right now. Love is in the air and you can feel it everywhere. If you are, or if you want to be, take a chance on love today Cancer and you may be swept away. Love is always closely related to the stars. YEAH, RIGHT APPARENTLY THE STARS HAVEN'T VISITED LS!! Yours>> Libra has had a brush with power and remains inspired. Today is the day after a touch with power, so spend the day digesting it because tomorrow could be a day for action. Power is like a muscle, if the stars give it to you but you don't exercise it, the power fades away. Tojaz
LisaUk Posted July 24, 2009 Posted July 24, 2009 Thanks for the horoscopes, the ones from my end were rubbish so I can't see the point of typing them out! Hmmmm, yes the stars do not appear to have visited LS! Hope you are doing good today.
LisaUk Posted July 25, 2009 Posted July 25, 2009 Ok, horoscopes for today! Yours-Do you ache? Are you in pain? Is there something within you that feels stifled and streched all at the same time? Are you being wrestled into a half nelson? Is your arm being twisted behind your back? Is the universe being a bully towards you? Ok. Enough difficult questions. Here are some reassuring answers. You will soon experience a distict ligthening of your mood-and a clear improvement in your physical situation. Sometimes we have to go through a struggle before we can feel that we have fully earned a reward. Your toughist times are behind you. A series of easier, sweeter days lie ahead. Thank goodness for that! Mine-Why are you reading this? Who said you could? And even if you did get permission, how do you know it still stands? Aren't you always doing the wrong thing? Isn't everything you do just not good enough? Sorry to start your forecast with such a list of nasty questions, but my job is to reflect the kind of conditions that yu are likely to face in daily life...and as you may have already noticed, some people now feel entitled to find fault with you on every concievable count plus a few that are beyond all possible reason. Why bother to defend yourself when it won't make any difference? Try not to take it personally and stand your ground. I am doing this to myself, I have been beating myself up today, over all the s**t he said to me! His (only doing his because they are a bit freaky in retrospect)-We all love novelty and excitement. We love it almost as much as we love comfort and familiarity. At the moment, you're not sure which you want more and you're feeling torn. To get your adventure, you're going to have to sacrifice stability. To get security, you're going to have to give up some freedom. Which will it be? Your inclination is to look for some way to have your cake and eat it. Maybe you can, but remember, when the going gets tough the tough get going, when the going gets good, they get nervous. You are tough. Don't be apprehensive. The best possible outcome to your drama can and will ensue.
Author tojaz Posted July 25, 2009 Author Posted July 25, 2009 Lisa, check out brokens thread, she can use some kind words right now!
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