sweet666 Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 i started to see a guy about 3 months ago and everything seemed look great but after a month probabely Ex gf started to stalking him and me, she sent us many things that he might not want me to know at that time and about me to him. Gradually he started to call me less and asked me out less and less... I was a little bit worried that might these mails had an effect on him till finally i asked him why he wouldnt ask me out as much as before!!!!, and he mentioned that he needed to think about us more. And now its been about 15 days that we havent seen each other but we talked almost everyday or everyother day over the phone. and now I am wondering if i should have hope somehow that there is chance to back to what we were before or I should forget about him! thanks
LucreziaBorgia Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 I'd cut your losses on this one. With the 'ex' in the picture, you and he can't ever have what you would like to have with him. I'd cut him off and let him know that when his life is a little less 'complicated' (ie: when he cuts off the ex for good, goes to NC, and forces her out of his life) then he can give you a call again. Otherwise, he should lose your number and leave you alone.
Recommended Posts