brock9911 Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 i go almost a month without talking to my ex of 8 years. good accomplishment, on top of which i met another girl. another good accomplishment, but shes a different post. today i get a phone call from my ex... almost crying saying she didnt forget about fathers day (my fathers 1 year death day just passed) and she wanted to say how shes thinking of me and how she still loves me deeply. ummmm yeah she broke up with me saying i cheated on her. and yeah she cheated on me.....4 times..... around the time my dad died. selfish much? well my gripe is, i told her to f off. i also said i dont need her sympathy or caring cuz i have none for her. she brought this upon her self. i said lose my number, i dont love you anym,ore (not true but for effect). i dont know what to say to get this across that shes making this breakup harder by calling and texting. MY MINDS GOING TO EXPLODE
boogieboy Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 Keep this updated, after that tongue lashing, I have to know if she still calls or texts.
Author brock9911 Posted June 23, 2009 Author Posted June 23, 2009 will do, well i got another text saying how this past saterday was going to be my suprise bday party. and good thing she didnt have it because it poured. i said why are you telling me this WE'RE NOT TOGETHER. since that i havnt heard a word.
EmperorR Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 Ignore the bread crumbs as I always tell my exes I don't need your sympathy I don't need you thinking of me. She didn't care about your feelings when she cheated and stomped on your feelings so tell her to shove it.
Jdw_Icequeen Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 I have been following your threads for a while. It sounds like you took a big step saying you didn't love her anymore, even if it wasn't true. I don't know if I could have done that. Thats good though that you were able to stand your ground. I hear constantly about exs appearing out of the blue not always with the " I miss you I love you crap". Somtimes I want to see you for whatever reason or trying to be our friends. There half @ssed atempts of fixing somthing they totally blew out of the water. Its been almost 3 months for me. I have to stay in contact because of the kids, thats ok though he rarley calls them never asks about them. So its been easy to have very limited contact. It would really piss me off when I start moving on with things and getting back to a life of happiness without him he appearred. Its been slower since I have had to have LC. Why is that when they come back? Idiots! They can feel your getting on with your life so they don't want us to move on.. Its the only thing I can think of.. They can move on but you can't because there big f'n egos, wanting somone to want them. Sorry lol.. I feel angry for you!!
boogieboy Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 i go almost a month without talking to my ex of 8 years. good accomplishment, on top of which i met another girl. another good accomplishment, but shes a different post. today i get a phone call from my ex... almost crying saying she didnt forget about fathers day (my fathers 1 year death day just passed) and she wanted to say how shes thinking of me and how she still loves me deeply. ummmm yeah she broke up with me saying i cheated on her. and yeah she cheated on me.....4 times..... around the time my dad died. selfish much? well my gripe is, i told her to f off. i also said i dont need her sympathy or caring cuz i have none for her. she brought this upon her self. i said lose my number, i dont love you anym,ore (not true but for effect). i dont know what to say to get this across that shes making this breakup harder by calling and texting. MY MINDS GOING TO EXPLODE Concentrate on the new girl my friend. She wont bring you back down because you got something better thats interested in you. Your void will be filled that is WORTHY of your attention. Willpower my friend. Theres no need for her to occupy your mind any longer, its done and theres no reason for you to be hurt. You never have to hear from her again, and you certainly dont want to. The new woman is the shining light, walk into it.
iBelieve In Symmetry Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 Whoa! HUGE step. I haven't spoken to my ex, I honestly don't feel too much towards her, or at least I haven't lately. Though I still feel sad, loss, whatever. If she were to contact me, I don't know if I'd tell her to f*ck off, though she deserves it. And if I ever end up in the situation where she DOES contact me again, thanks to your post, I probably will tell her to f*ck off! It's not fair we were so faithful, did our best, etc. to make them happy. And they go behind our backs and cheat. F*ck them, seriously! They don't deserve to be in our lives, and to be honest I don't even know if I ever want to hear from her again! Sorry lol.. I feel angry for you!! I guess it had the same effect on me
fabulous_chk Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 Block her number! From ALL phones! If a number you recognized shows up let the person leave a voicemail. If it was your ex, block that number too. Block, block, block and if this doesn't work change your number. You are very strong for telling her those things. Wish I'd done the same.
Author brock9911 Posted June 24, 2009 Author Posted June 24, 2009 well this has been the most positive feed back iv gotten. i guess i did the right thing. i felt guilty for talking to her like that but iv been through so much $h!t i cant take it anymore
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