confusedgirl85 Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 My ex broke up with me last October (its almost a year) and i still think of him. I usually think of him at nights, or when im not busy at work or school, every now and then i think of him and just wonder what is he up to? I feel like calling him, but i know i shouldnt and the last time we talked was for his bday on May. I dont know what to do... i got others behind my back trying to date me but i refuse to do so because i dont like any of them, i keep picturing in my head that somehow someday he will want to get back with me but i know its not going to happen. We remained as friends and i know i can call him and talk as friends but thats all that is going to happen. When he broke up with me he said that he wasnt himself around me and it was all of a sudden..... i want him back what can i do?
Beeotch Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 Doesnt seem like there is much you can do.... He has moved on with his life and so should you.I know it is easier said than done but you need to sit down and think of a new plan to move on...as whatever you're doing now is not working. You should perhaps go on a couple dates...you never know...just to keep busy (don't play with anyone's emotions though)...by ALL means you should figure out things to help YOU move forward and be happy again and not try to focus energy on getting him back. One year is a long enough time...you don't want to spend the next 5 years unhappy while he is oblivious and content. Don't do it....you could try counseling. Just having someone else to talk to and to support you and give you feedback. Whatever you do...you need to vow to make those positive moves for you.
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