Brady_to_Moss Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 Went out on a date with her 2 weeks ago. Dinner and then a movie at my place. Went very well and we both had fun. But now when i talk with her and try to make plans. She acts like she doesnt want to do anything. Example: I txted her today at work to see if she wanted to hangout a week from today when she gets her new puppy. I am busy with work until then so thats my only real day to hangout. She replied back with: Yea possibly. I dunno what ill be up to yet but maybe lol ill deff let ya know. Does that sound like shes un interested? I asked her to make plans yet she says she might be busy that day? I guess if she makes plans the day before its okay even if i asked her before that.
skjd1220 Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 Sorry to say, but that was sort of rude response. Clearly, she doesn't already have plans for that day and it seems like she's saying she'll hang out with you unless something better comes along. I hope you find something better to do before then! You deserve better and someone that knows they want to hang out with you.
boogieboy Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 Yeah shes not interested. I dont know what you did to turn her off, but now you have to wait for her to call you.
alphamale Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 Went out on a date with her 2 weeks ago. Dinner and then a movie at my place. Went very well and we both had fun. But now when i talk with her and try to make plans. She acts like she doesnt want to do anything. Example: I txted her today at work to see if she wanted to hangout a week from today when she gets her new puppy. I am busy with work until then so thats my only real day to hangout. She replied back with: Yea possibly. I dunno what ill be up to yet but maybe lol ill deff let ya know. Does that sound like shes un interested? I asked her to make plans yet she says she might be busy that day? I guess if she makes plans the day before its okay even if i asked her before that. dude you're barking up the wrong tree here...
Joey Popps Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 Obviously it didn't go as well as you thought. Maybe she didn't like the fact you had 'dinner and a movie' at your pad. Who knows. At this point it just seems she's doing the polite 'yeah maybe i'll see' because she really doesn't have a desire to see you again. Then again she might think your good looking enough to keep on the back burner if nothing else pops up.
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted June 23, 2009 Author Posted June 23, 2009 Guess it didnt. I mean i didnt flirt much or have physical contact which is probally the reason but i am still getting use to this whole dating thing...oh well...next!
EddieN Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 Don't sweat it man. People change their minds so quickly that it's sometimes useless to try to analyze it. It doesn't necessarily need to be your fault. You could have been a cool guy and done nothing wrong and she still just didn't feel it like you did.
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