alg24 Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 Hi- When you contact the BS what results have you seen? If she doesn't mention it to their husband/wife usually what happens? At the end of my affair I admitted everything to the BS. She tried to contact me before... I was very nice, straightforward, and apologized (Even though I knew it would be meaningless) (I do have a lot of guilt...) When she text messaged me back she was very nice towards me but did admit that she could never forgive both of us, especially him for the damage done... Anyway, he has now tried to get back with me. Clearly though in the same situation-- it seems that the wife hasn't said anything about me. I DON'T want to get back with him, but wanted to prepare myself for what might happen. Will she mention talking to me if she hasn't so already? After I told her everything he was leaving his town in a week for many months... I know the relationship isn't great between them... Especially now... He mentioned they aren't really speaking...
whichwayisup Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 Since you've had contact with his wife before, I would tell her that he's contacting her again and make it clear that you have NO interest in reconnecting with him, that you want NOTHING to do with him. He's lying to both of you (still) so don't believe a word he tells you..Yes, I'm sure their marriage isn't great right now considering he cheated on her. I wonder what he is doing to make things better at home? Obviously contacting you isn't going to help his marriage or bring trust back in her eyes.
Mino Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 Tell her again. Bust his azz.lol, Bent , your crazy sometimes, :lmao:But I tend to agree, she should know. I talked to my xmm w once, it was a very interesting conversation to say the least.
Concerned Friend2 Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 It sounds like this is a situation that is done and over for you. Change your numbers and cut off all contact with both of them. You've obviously come to your senses and moved on. Make it difficult for him to contact you and he will ultimately get the hint.
Gamine Posted June 27, 2009 Posted June 27, 2009 If it were me, I'd tell him this.... The next time he contacted me I'd be calling his wife and I'd let him have it for using two women for his cheap thrills. His wife is probably broken hearted, you have been clearly hurt... and he just mozies along mindlessly depositing his toxins into women's lives. Someone should give him a proverbial bloody nose by shoving his crap right back into his face. The two of you should tell him where to shove it.
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