shoesies05 Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 well... me and my now ex bf broke up on friday. turns out the sexual issues weren't our real problem, the real problem was that he wasnt sure that he loves me. and after 8 months, you think he would know... ( so he doesnt, and wont) so it was ended by the both of us. the thing that hurts, other than that he doesnt love me and i love him, is that i was so afraid of him taking back his love for me... and he did.
dreamergrl Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 It does hurt, hearing that your loved, to find out your not loved any more. But wouldn't you rather know now, then far off in the future. It will heal! I know it's gotta suck. I've been there. But trust me, you'll find love again.
SoulSearch_CO Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 "Not to be loved is a misfortune, but it is an insult to be loved no longer." ~ Montesquieu. Tattooed right there on my ankle in his native language - French. I am so sorry to hear you are dealing with this. I feel you.
Author shoesies05 Posted June 22, 2009 Author Posted June 22, 2009 it hurts, yes... but i guess i just know that there is better out there for me and it helps me feel a bit more at peace. and me and him luckily ended things on not too bad of terms- so we are going to try to be friends. at least after a few months of NC, or until i feel ready to talk to him... and i like that though things may not have worked out on a romantic basis, that i have the hope that we could still be good friends because i still would want him in my life. and ive also decided that say he does come and tell me he does love me i still will not get back with him, because i need someone who isnt going back in forth between what they feel for me.
OpenBook Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 and ive also decided that say he does come and tell me he does love me i still will not get back with him, because i need someone who isnt going back in forth between what they feel for me. Good for you shoesies. Who needs it?!? He's not the right guy. Somebody else out there is.
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