lizzy_09 Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 Hi, all! I would like to ask you views about this situation. Let’s say you were intimate with someone and while doing the deed, you called that person by a different name. How do you cover up this embarrassing situation by not offending your man? Or woman?
SoulSearch_CO Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 Ha. Good luck. I don't see anyway to recover from this while still in the act. My XH did it to me once and I was laughing (to cover my disgust) so hard that we had to stop. He called me by his XW's name. Then he explained that the reason he had done it was because they had been fighting over something to do with his kids and she just happened to be on his mind. I would just say - make a conscious effort to be there in the moment with the person you're having sex with. I think it's supremely insulting to call someone by someone else's name during sex. You should be PRESENT for the act. Otherwise, if they are so boring that your mind wanders and you use someone else's name, the sex must not be so great. Other things to work on.
lab_brat Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 Hi, all! I would like to ask you views about this situation. Let’s say you were intimate with someone and while doing the deed, you called that person by a different name. How do you cover up this embarrassing situation by not offending your man? Or woman? You can't cover it up. All you can do is apologise profusely, buy them pretty things, and never ever forget their name in bed again
Author lizzy_09 Posted June 23, 2009 Author Posted June 23, 2009 Actually SoulSearch_CO, it's a friend of mine. We were discussing about our relationship and she asked me if that ever happen. It did before but good thing I didn't scream or yell his name. But a friend of mine did. She just made that silly excuse with her guy that she was piss off with an acquaintance and called his name instead. Haven't heard what the guys reaction is but he just had that expression of having doubted that excuse. But if it did, what would you think is the possible excuse one can pass? In my case, I called the wrong name cause I was constantly in contact with this male friend and I accidentally just said the name. Honestly, I don't fool around. As for my friends case, I'd rather have her secrets with her. So, I'll ask the question again, what would you do if for example you called out another persons name while doing the deed?
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