petejones4203219 Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 I've never really had an official gf, only those stupid high school relationships. But every time i would try and talk to another girl, at school or parties, i always run out of things to talk about. once i get through all the pleasantries, i cant come up with any topics that could take us anywhere. hit me up with some advice if you got it.
motive2002 Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 Talk about your interests and ask her about hers. Chances are you'll have something in common somewhere. If a girl feels some kind of connection with you physically... reinforcing that connection with common interests makes you seem like just the right guy! Also people love to talk about themselves. If you ask about their interests and show some enthusiasm, then you can let them do all the talking for a while. Sometimes just listening is the best approach, but you really have to listen, not just feign interest. Hope that helps.
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