one goal Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 The girl I talked about before in my PE class at college. last thur I said hi to her before class again, and after class I went up to her, and told her have a good weekend and see her next week. I've only talked to her for two classes briefly. So what should I say next to her? I mean is it too early to ask her out? Like is it too early to ask her to get something to eat after class? What is the next thing I should do?
anne1707 Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 You could suggest going for a coffee after class. I am sure she will also appreciate the benefits of meeting in a public open space with plenty of clear exit points. Somewhere where they have security staff...
Island Girl Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 What is the next thing I should do? Ask her if she wants to get something to eat or a coffee, etc. If she is not interested then do not fixate on her, as you have in the past with other girls, and move on to someone else.
xXMarlboro_ManXx Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 I'm in the same situation with a girl in one of my classes now. Since I only talked to her two times I'm still trying to get a feel for how interested she is. So I haven't asked her out or anything. But for you if she is sending definite IOI's or if the class is ending soon I would ask her out to something small asap. If you haven't built a decent connection with her yet I would give it at least one more week.
Author one goal Posted June 21, 2009 Author Posted June 21, 2009 I'm in the same situation with a girl in one of my classes now. Since I only talked to her two times I'm still trying to get a feel for how interested she is. So I haven't asked her out or anything. But for you if she is sending definite IOI's or if the class is ending soon I would ask her out to something small asap. If you haven't built a decent connection with her yet I would give it at least one more week. So what should I say when I see her on Tue? What should I talk about? Is it way to early ask her after class to get a drink? Ive only talked to her twice so far and not for a long time.
xXMarlboro_ManXx Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 Just try to make some normal conversation with her maybe about the class or something. To me if you only have talked to her for little bit you might want to talk to her at least once more before asking her out. Keep in mind take my advice with a grain of salt because I don't have much experience with this stuff. Good Luck.
BobSacamento Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 Be like "Wow this class can sure make you thirsty." And she'll be like "Yeah." And then you can be like "You know what's good for that?....Giant Margaritas."
Author one goal Posted June 22, 2009 Author Posted June 22, 2009 Be like "Wow this class can sure make you thirsty." And she'll be like "Yeah." And then you can be like "You know what's good for that?....Giant Margaritas." I dont think shes 21 though. Looks prob 18-21. Also everyone brings water to the class, usually it seems.
boogieboy Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 I always try to make funny remarks about whatever I can (usually about the class) to make them laugh before I ask them out for coffee.
Author one goal Posted June 23, 2009 Author Posted June 23, 2009 What about asking if she wants to go out to dinner or something sometime? Is that too much when Ive only talked to her briefly a couple times?
luvbugged Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 I think dinner is a bit rushing it if you've only talked to her briefly twice. I'd go for coffee.
Author one goal Posted June 23, 2009 Author Posted June 23, 2009 I dont like coffee and the class is at night. If I ask her if she wants to get something to drink should i go to the student lounge, or go out somewhere?
Island Girl Posted June 23, 2009 Posted June 23, 2009 When people suggest coffee -- you can interchange that with any beverage you would prefer. It doesn't have to be coffee. The suggestion is that you ask her to do something. You pick that something. Whatever you want. You can go to the student union or a cafe -- you could ask her to a movie -- whatever the case may be. Just ask. If she is interested she will go with you or suggest you call her to go at another time. If she says she can't for whatever reason and does not mention going another time or take your phone number, etc. Then assume she is not interested and move on. Oh and do not give her your number and then wait for her to call. You should get her number and call her. If she asks for your number instead of giving you hers then assume she is not interested. And if she is not interested then move on immediately to someone else and leave her alone.
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