gold_medal83 Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 ok, so heres the dealio, I met this girl about a month ago and I really like her. Shes sort of a flirt but shes majorly awesome. Well I didnt know if she was single or not so I just came out and asked her and she said she was, but thats because she doesnt date...she then asked me why I asked that and I told her, of course,its because I liked her. I told her that I respect that she doesnt date, which is the truth, but I cant seem to be around her and talk to her without just wanting date her. Im not the kinda guy that is just lookin to "get some" its just I really like this girl and I know she likes me but I just cant get why she "doesnt date". Any suggestions on what I should do next?. Btw I met her at a college prep thing that lasts 5 weeks and we are about to go onto the 4th week.
vertical Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 If she is in a college prep class then she has to be 16+, right? She should be mature enough to tell you why she doesnt. Just flat ask her. If she is shy, then get her number and ask her through txt message or by a call. That is a good way to help a shy girl open up imo. If she wont tell you, then it must be something personal, and probably should be considered as a thing that is non of your buisness. But i doubt that will happen.
alphamale Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 Any suggestions on what I should do next?. yes, drop this girl like a hot potato and find one who is interested in dating you
mortensorchid Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 She "doesn't date". Unless she is specifically not allowed to by parent(s), she is telling you that you should not waste your time with her.
patcha Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 I don't date either, but I hang out. See if she will spend some time with you one-on-one. She can "not date" all she wants. As long as she goes out with you, you get to know her and maybe things will move forward. First, see if this girl with "hang out" with you one-on-one a couple of times. If you still like her after at least 10 times, then report back. Now it's too soon to worry. If she won't even hang out with you, then the others are right. She is just not considering dating you. Her loss. Next her. Move on.
Recommended Posts