iwanttolive Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 I always feel that i'm not fun or interesting enough for my boyfriend after say... 2 months of dating. I feel like this consistently in my past 3 relationships and I don't know what to do I feel that he would prefer to spend time with his friends rather than see me because i'm boring. Am I being paranoid, over-sensitive? I also have a hard time opening up or being expressive about my feeling. The chemistry between us would slowly die Is there any hope for me or am I doomed? Sigh... Desperate for help here..
hew Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 I have felt this way before at times. I have felt that im not good enough or that im not pretty enough.. the usual insecure things. But heres something ive learned: The right guy for you will care for you no matter what. and he wont think your boring because he loves spending time with you even if you just hanging out doing nothing. You might feel this way because you really like him and dont want to loose him. You might want to try talking to him about it too. He might say something to make you feel better;) who knows!
ratingsguy Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 I think a lot of girls feel like they have to have some big grandiose plans whenever they spend time with their boyfriends. And consequently, boyfriends feel the need to provide those grandiose plans in order to keep them happy. From a guys perspective, there's nothing wrong with spending time together doing nothing... like hanging out or watching TV. Like Hew said, the right guy will just cherish the fact that he's with his girl. It doesn't matter what you're doing as long as you're doing it together. As for not being open about your feelings, guys like that too. Just kidding... If the guy you're with cares about you, you should feel comfortable talking with him. But of course that can take time if you're shy. You were brave enough to go out with him... be brave enough to share you're feelings. Whether or not he agrees with them, I'm sure he'll be understanding.
sugarmomma Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 Are you too needy? If you have a full ife of your own outside of him you shouldn't feel this way. Get busy living your own life!!!
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