hrtbrk hotel tenant Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 i have been reiterating this in numerous post so dont get mad. my gurl broke up with 2 wks ago and since i checked her phone records i deduced that she was over a guys house the next night. I feel all throughout the relationship she has lied to me in some way and i hate her for it. I love her but i realize that she is not right. She is self-absorbed person who doesnt deaserve me. i dont know if i can every forget her blatant disrepect for me and the relationship. She was not the person i thought she was and the more i think about her being with another man so soon just tells me that she neva cared about me she only cared for herself.
jqb05443 Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 its okay. you sound like me yesterday and today. i was posting like crazy. you cared about someone and did right by that person and it hurts when they do these things to us. Try your hardest not to look at the phone records. I have my ex's passwords for his cell phone voicemail, online phone access to view numbers dialed (he could have changed his passwords since we broke up) but I won't even go on to check. I would be hurt either way. But that's just me. Maybe seeing it is helping you cope.
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